Feelings
Types of uncomfortable feelings
sad, angry, frustrated, mad, upset, annoyed, disappointed, unhappy
Name a hidden Library rule
Be quiet
These types of behaviors make people have comfortable feelings.
Expected behaviors
This is Place + People + What's Happening
A Situation
Thinking with your eyes
Using your eyes to show your brain is thinking about other people. Example: paying attention.
Types of comfortable feelings
happy, calm, proud, good, okay, excited
Rules that are not written are what?
Hidden rules
Clue number 1 involves thinking with your what?
Eyes
Body in the group
Staying close to others in your group but not TOO close to make them feel uncomfortable.
What happens when we have expected behaviors
People have comfortable feelings and want to be around us.
These rules help us know what?
What are the expected behaviors for the situation.
These types of behaviors make people have uncomfortable feelings
Unexpected behaviors
We use these to listen to collect clues about a situation
Ears
Brain in the group
Thinking about others with your eyes and listening to what they are talking about.
What happens when people have unexpected behaviors?
People have uncomfortable feelings and do not want to be around us.
Every situation has a set of THESE to help us figure out what to do or say
Rules
Sitting quietly in class, Helping a hurt friend, taking turns in a game are all examples of what kind of behaviors
Expected Behaviors
What do we use our brains for when figuring out what is happening?
To remember places people and experiences.
Smart Guess
Using all of our tools to figure out a situation and then making a guess about how we should behave and what might happen.
Examples of things that make others have comfortable feelings
being kind, working hard, paying attention, doing our chores, etc.
These types of rules are NOT written
Hidden rules
People will not want to be around you when you have these types of behaviors.
Unexpected Behaviors
What is the final clue in your smart guess toolbox?
Figuring out how someone is feeling.
Social Smarts
The smarts in our brain that we use when we are around other people.