Expected or Unexpected
Ms Saundra asks Mr Jason to start his journal. Mr Jason starts to yell and throws his journal across the room
UNEXPECTED
Tell me 3 smarts that you have
Examples: math, science, video games, basketball
Ms Saundra is doing a math lesson on Zoom. Devyon's keeps looking down. Ms Saundra calls on him for the answer and Devyon says "what?"
Mind, Eyes, Ears
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FpnjQpFc6qY
When to use it. Give them a coping skill
Any answer you give will work
JJ asks Liam to please move back because he is not 6 feet away from him. Liam says "my bad I didn't notice" and took a few steps back
EXPECTED
How do others feel when you have expected behaviors
Happy, content...
Give me an example of a school smart
During GGI, Brandon is sharing his status and what he wants to work on. JJ turns around in his chair and starts reading the schedule on the board
Dionte asks Ms Kristen for help with a math question. Ms Kristen says "no way" and walks away
UNEXPECTED
How do others feel when you have unexpected behaviors?
Upset, annoyed, irritated, mad...
Give me an example of a social smart
During gym class outside, Ms Danny starts separating everyone into teams. She tell Pinero he is on team 1, but Pinero is walking over by the playground
Everything (Body Snatcher got him that time)
What is unexpected behavior?
things we do and say that may result in uncomfortable thoughts and make others feel icky or mad, or upset
Ms Holly is walking into townhouse and she trips and falls on the ground. The students around her start to giggle.
How does Ms Holly feel?
Embarrassed, upset,....
What are social smarts?
The type of “smarts” in our brains that we use whenever we are around people. Social smarts help our brains to know that others are possible having thoughts about what we do or say and we are possible having thoughts about what they do or say. We use social smarts in school, at home, and EVERYWHERE!!!
Thomas is telling Mr Jason a story about what he did for Christmas. Thomas then asks Mr Jason what he did for Christmas, and Mr Jason says "Oh I'm fine."
Ears, Brain/Mind He was not listening
What is an expected behavior?
things we do and say that may result in others having good or neutral thoughts. Usually people feel good or calm too
Think of our EXPECTations at school
How does Brandon feel?
Happy, proud, excited, etc...
What are school smarts?
Different types of “smarts” in our brains that we use for school learning. Things like math smarts, computer smarts, music smarts, science smarts, and many more.
Cordell and Ms Saundra are playing a game. Its Ms Saundra's turn, but she does not go. Cordell says he name 3 times before Ms Saundra gets up and walks away
Ears, Body, Mind, Heart