Healthy Relationships
SEL Overview
Mindset
What Are My Goals?
Naming Feelings
100

Two relationships that you are currently in

parent/child

althete/coach

teacher/student

friend/friend

sibling/sibling

etc.

100

SEL stands for 

Social Emotional Learning

100

A _______ mindset occurs when we believe our intelligence and abilities can be improved with effort and the right strategies.

What is growth? Those with a growth mindset believe that abilities can be developed and strengthened by way of commitment and hard work.

100

What is a goal?

Something you want to do or accomplish.

100

List 5 feelings

Answers vary.

200

If a friend is losing at a game, what can you say to encourage them?

"You can do it"

"Don't give up"

"You can win next time"

200

Tools and techniques you can use to help you handle difficult emotions, decrease stress, and establish or maintain a sense of internal order.

What are coping skills? 

200

Share why a person might give up or quite something.

Answers vary

200

A _____________ is a visualization tool which refers to a board of any sort used to build a collage of words and pictures that represent your goals and dreams.

What is a vision board?

200

I wake up in the morning and my little sister is crying and screaming. I ask her to stop and she throws a toy at me. How might I feel?

Mad, sad, frustrated, grumpy, furious

300

A feeling that one must do the same things as other people of one's age and social group in order to be liked or respected by them.

What is Peer pressure?

300

The ability to understand and share the feelings of others.

What is empathy?

300

What is willpower?

Not giving up when things get tough. 

Determination.

300

List three items that might be included in a vision board. 

what is places to visit, occupations, family, friends, hobbies, self-care, health/wellness, values, goals, quotes, etc.

300

I'm part of a group online game and I'm not playing well and everyone including my friends and friends of friends begin to tease me because I am not as good as them.  How might I feel?

Sad, mad, disappointed, frustrated, lonely

400

Healthy or unhealthy? Your best friend has made a new friend that you don't like. You tell your best friend not to hangout with the new friend. 

Unhealthy

400

Maintaining a moment to moment awareness of our thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, and surrounding environment.

What is mindfulness?

400

The opposite of growth mindset is __________ mindset. 

What is fixed?  People with a fixed mindset believe qualities are inborn, fixed, and unchangeable.

400

Explain why it is important to have goals. 

Answers vary. 

400

List 5 coping skills you can use to calm down

Varies

500

List 5 characteristics of a healthy relationship.

Trust, honesty, kind/caring/love, safe, dependable, good boundaries, no harm, equal, compromise, respect, good communication. 

500

Your inner dialogue.  It's influenced by your subconscious mind, and it reveals your thoughts, beliefs, questions, and ideas.

What is self-talk (positive)?

500

The quote "If you're brave enough often enough you will fail" is tough for some people. Studying growth mindset we learned if you change the word fail to __________ to hear the quote more positive.

What is learn? 

500

Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Time-based

What is a S.M.A.R.T. goal?

500

List 5 coping skills that have not already been listed

Varies