Social Cues I
What are some questions to ask in a social situation?
What is the gathering for? Who is Present? Do we Share Common Interests? What food should I bring lol
Discuss something you learned from the Spectrum of Clues
They can be from one extreme to another, depending on the situation.
True or False: Weather is an acceptable current event to discuss.
True dat!
List some ways to be aware of our movements....
All effective ways, Yay TEAM!
True or False: Taking the High Road is a way to display great skills without having to put others' down in the process.
True and thank you very much for your great answer.
What are common eye behaviors discussed in The Eyes Have It?
Eye Rolling, Blinking too much/too little, Wandering eyes, Long blinks, etc.
True or False: Reviewing and Reflecting are effective ways to ensure one is not jumping to conclusions right away.
Truth No Cap
What are some topics to avoid in a group?
Religion, Politics, Personal Health, Prejudice Topics
What are some ways to communicate with power?
Think before you speak, be an active listener, watch for cues, be aware of body language
Discuss something you learned from the Module Eleven: Ellen Case Study
Ellen built a great rapport with this group of coworkers and a great network.
True or False: A non-verbal Clue is Yelling at the top of your lungs.
FALSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Discuss something you learned from the Module Eight: Andrew Case Study
Andrew had to learn to work with other people's schedules/habits and it was something he wasn't sure he could get used to.
What are cues to watch for in a conversation?
Boredom, Annoyance, Anger, Offense, Open/Closed Body Language, Interest, Comfort
True or False: It is not what you say, but how you say it
TRUE TRUE TRUE
What are some ways we can remember people?
Say name immediately after hearing it, don't be afraid to ask them to repeat it, associate a gesture with their greeting, remember distinct features
List some verbal cues....
Voice Tone, Word emphasis, Volume, Uncomfortable pauses, Pitch, etc.
What is being adaptable and flexible mean?
I agree, great job.
Discuss something you learned from the Module Nine: Tina Case Study
Staff was relieved when politics and government were not going to be discussed at the meeting.
List some examples of open vs. closed body language
All true, we have to make sure we are aware of these and act accordingly.
List some good questions to ask to build a connection with someone.
Connections will be made with those questions :)
Discuss something you learned from the Module Seven: Mary Case Study
Mary noticed co-workers making positive comments, Mary knew the employee wasn't right because she something in the eyes.
What are some ways we can use personal space when we feel uncomfortable?
Excuse yourself, step to the side, walk often, Opt for handshake/fist bump, be aware of cultural differences...
What are ways to give people your attention?
Eye Contact, Be Present, Nod and Show facial movements, Ask ?, Remove Distractions, etc.
Discuss something you learned from the Module Ten: Seth Case Study
Seth learned the hard way that it is how you say it and how body language can show us the way!
How can we forget about ourselves in a conversation with others?
BE an active listener, show interest in their ideas or thoughts, ask for follow up information, offer opinions as needed, but focus on them.