In or out of my control
How to react?
Who can help?
One-sided or two-sided conversation
True or False
100
You want to join an new club but you are nervous about going? What is in your control and out of your control?
  • In Control: Choosing to attend meetings and participate actively.
  • Out of Control: How others perceive their involvement or if they make friends immediately.
100

Amy is excited about a new game she has, she tells you about it, how should you respond?

Any statement that sounds like you are just as excited. "Wow let me see!" "thats exciting, when did you get it?"

100

The school assembly is too loud for you. Who could you tell?

Tell the a teacher near you or near the exit. 

Ask the teacher if you may step into the hallway for a little bit because it it too loud. 

100

Two students discussing how to divide tasks for a group project. They ask each other’s opinions and negotiate who does what.

Two-Sided Conversation

100

In a library, its ok to listen to music, laugh with friends, and eat your favorite snacks. 

True or False (explain why)

false, you should not eat,drink, or be loud inside of the library

200

You are wanting to make new friends. What is in your control and what is out of your contorl?

  • In Control: Approaching classmates, starting conversations, and inviting people to hang out.
  • Out of Control: Whether someone wants to be friends or clicks with them right away.
200

You need to cross the street, but the crossing light is broken, what can you do?

Walk down to another cross walk, or look both ways make sure there are not cars coming and cross the street 

200

You are not feeling well and want to go home. Who could you tell?

I could ask for a pass to the nurse 
200

Two friends talking about their weekends. One shares their experience, and the other responds with their own story, creating a back-and-forth dialogue.

Two-Sided Conversation

200

in the mall we walk, we only take the things we pay for

True or False (explain why)

True , it is not safe to run in crowds of people. We must pay for anything we are taking out of the store.

300

You are having trouble managing your time with homework and after school activities. What is in your control and out of your control?

  • In Control: Organizing their schedule to balance school, social life, and hobbies.
  • Out of Control: Unexpected changes in school events or friends' availability.
300

If you were worried that you would not finish your homework before bedtime, what could you do? 

Stay up a little longer to finish

Wake up earlier to finish it

*any answer that makes sense* 

300

You don’t know how to do the math problem, who can help? 

Your teacher or special instruction teacher 

300

A student is giving a lengthy explanation to a friend about why they should break up with their partner, without asking for the friend’s thoughts.

One-Sided Conversation

300

When at the movies: we record the screen and stand on the furniture

true or false? explain

false, you sit down and watch the screen. If you record the screen it can get you in legal trouble. 

400

Your family is going through a hard time. What is in your control and out of your control?

  • In Control: How they choose to respond to family challenges.
  • Out of Control: The actual circumstances (hard time) of their home life.
400

Ashley is outside in her grandmothers garden. She feels a sharp pain and sees shes been stung by a bee. Leslie start to feel strange. What should she do?

Tell her grandmother she was stung by a bee and does not feel well. 

400

A student is bullying you. Who could you tell?

Tell a teacher or administrator

400

Two classmates discussing a disagreement. Each person expresses their feelings and perspectives, leading to a solution that considers both sides.

Two-Sided Conversation



400

true or false (explain) 

A friend asks to copy homework.

false, everyone should work on homework on their own unless the teacher says you can work in a group. 

500

You are worried about people's opinions about you. What is in your control and what is out of your control?

  • In Control: Being confident in their choices and values.
  • Out of Control: How others judge or gossip about them.


500

You are feeling jealous when your friend gets to stay at the mall, and your mom is making you leave. How could you respond?

Be happy that you were able to go for a little bit....etc.

500

You are watching a video for your assignment on your iPad, but your classmate is being too loud. Who could you tell?

The student first, then the teacher. 

500

A student is venting to a group of friends about a difficult teacher and how unfair the grading is. They go on for several minutes, expressing frustration and detailing specific incidents, while the friends listen but don’t really interject or share their own thoughts on the matter.

One-Sided Conversation


500

True or False?(explain)

A new student is sitting alone at lunch. It's best to leave them alone. 

False, it is best to ask them if they want someone to sit with them. They may need a friend.