Questions
Being Attuned
Nonverbal Communication
Active Listening
A.R.E Method
100

Questions that encourage a full answer and typically start with "Why" "How" or "What."

Open-Ended Questions

100

When you copy the facial expressions, gestures, vocal inflections, and attitudes of another person during a social interaction.

Mirroring

100

The way someone positions their body depending on the situation, the environment and how they are feeling. 

Body Language

100

Repeating a summary of what has been said back to the speaker is a technique used by the listener to repeat what has been said in their own words.
 

Summarizing

100

An observation on your mutual shared reality (i.e., something that you both are experiencing and witness to). This is dependent on the setting you encounter the individual in.  

Anchor

200

Questions that are intended to build on what was previously discussed.

Probing Questions

200

Determining the feelings and emotions in a person or client's body language, and stating those feelings back to the person.

Reflection of Feelings

200

Using the eyebrows, mouth, eyes and facial muscles to convey emotion or information.

Facial Expressions

200

To summarize a message with fewer words. This active listening technique does two things. It tells the speaker that you're listening attentively, and it allows you to check your understanding and focus on the core of the message. 

Paraphrasing

200

Disclosing something about yourself that is related to the anchor used. 

Reveal

300

A question that is asked about something that is unclear or hard to understand.

Clarifying Questions

300

The act of conveying information without the use of words. 

Nonverbal Communication

300

Using your eyes to communicate attention and interest.

Eye Contact

300

Examples of this are open-ended, probing, and clarifying...

Questions

300

Strategy to keep the conversation going by asking a question.

Encourage

400

Questions that ask you to choose from a predefined set of responses, typically one-word answers such as “yes/no”, “true/false”, or a set of multiple-choice questions. 

Close-Ended Questions

400

A movement of part of the body, especially a hand or the head, to express an idea or meaning.

Gestures

400
Being truly present in the conversation. Using your eyes, facial expressions, tone of voice, and body language to send signals that you are fully paying attention.

Being Attuned

500

Questions that can be used to avoid the silence and create an emotional connection, showing that you are interested in what the other person has to say.

You-Questions

500

Moving your head in a manner that signals agreement and interest in the conversation.

Nodding

500

Going back to any previous subject and asking questions related to that.

Conversation Threading