What should you do instead?
Yelling for your teacher to get help.
Raising your hand and waiting patiently.
A teacher asks you to stay after school for SAIS, but you really do not want to.
Stay after and make a plan with your parents to get home.
You have chores to do, but want to play video games.
Get the chores done as best you can before starting to play video games.
A friend has been bothering your sibling for months even though your sibling has continuously asked them to stop.
Bullying
You left your backpack on the bus.
Tell a teacher
Ask the bus monitors to help
Quitting because you're losing a game.
Expressing your frustration, but staying till the end.
Asking to play a different game after this one.
Your friends are talking in the hall and you notice you might be late to class.
Politely tell them you need to get to class
Remind them of the time so you're not late
You are starting to feel frustrated in class. Name one coping mechanism you use.
Box breathing, taking a step back for a moment, asking to take a walk, meditating...
Someone says to you, "Are you really wearing that shirt again? What a loser."
Mean
You can't hear the teacher because someone behind you is talking.
Ask them to please be quiet
Ask the teacher to repeat themselves
Tell the teacher it is hard to hear them and ask them to speak up
Ask the teacher to remind the class to be respectful of those who are listening
Standing up in the middle of class to go to the bathroom.
Raising your hand to ask to use the restroom
Use the restroom before class
Waiting till class is over to use the restroom
You have a test tomorrow, how do you prepare for it?
Study!
Look over your notes
Ask questions if you are confused
You've been exhausted all week in class and find yourself falling asleep.
Go to bed earlier
Take a nap when you get home
Your friend tells you that on the bus someone got in their way when they went to sit down and told them, "no one wants you here."
Mean
There is a new kid in class and they don't know anyone yet.
Invite them to sit with you at lunch
Ask them how their day is going
Ask them about themselves
Ignoring the teacher when they ask you to do something.
Doing what you are asked to do, even if you do not want to do it.
You don't know where your classroom is.
Ask a teacher
Ask a friend
Try to use the numbers above the doors to find your way
I accidentally said something that hurt my friend's feeling.
Take accountability for my actions
Apologize
Someone at school has been telling everyone your password to log in to your Roblox everyday for the last week.
Bullying
Bonus: Cyber bullying
You took your friends coat by mistake
Ask your parents to let them know you will return it
Bring it to school the next day to return it
Apologize for the mistake
Pushing someone who just pushed you.
Walk away and find an adult for help
Tell them you would like to be left alone
Daily Double
Who is your counselor?
Mrs. Matecki
Mrs. Blind
Mrs. Stewart
Mrs. Cotroneo
You are always losing your work and struggle to find homework when you get to class.
Organize your folders
Organize your locker
What kind of bullying is this:
Someone is pushing you around and you run into the lockers every time they do it.
Physical bullying
You have a math test tomorrow and left your notes at school.
Ask a friend in your class for help
Ask your parents for help studying
If you have a book from class, study from that