Conversation Skills
What's one way to show your listening?
Giving the person you're talking to good eye contact and undivided attention
Someone bumps into you—how do you respond calmly?
Ask if they're okay, if they drop their things offer to help
Say it's all good and move on
What does it mean if someone avoids eye contact?
They are not interested in what you have to say.
They are bored or don't want to talk to you.
What’s one quality of a good friend?
They are there for you when you are sad
They ask you to hang out
How do you join a group of people already talking?
Observe what the conversation is about
Wait for a pause then join in
Be considerate
What's a good question to get to know someone?
Where are you from?
What are your hobbies?
Do you play any sports and what music do you like?
What's your favorite place you've ever been to and why?
What would you do if a friend starts acting distant?
Text or call the friend ask if everything is okay.
Ask if you did anything wrong or if something is stressing him or her out
What body language shows someone is open to talking?
They give strong eye contact
They smile and laugh when they listen to you
They are excited and cheerful
What’s a respectful way to ask for space?
I'm sorry I'm going through a lot right now and am just going to need some space and time for myself
What's the difference between being annoyed and angry?
Annoyed is being frustrated
Angry is a stronger emotion
How do you end a conversation politely when you need to leave?
I'm so sorry but I need to get home, it was great seeing and talking to you
Say that you have to be somewhere by a certain time if needed, then say it was nice to catch up with you.
You’re paired with someone you don’t get along with. What do you do?
Stay calm and make things work out
Say open to compromise
What might it mean if someone checks their phone while you're talking?
They are not interested in the conversation
They may have an emergency phone call or text they have to answer, but they let you know first
They want to leave
How can you tell when someone is using you?
They are nice around you, but talk bad about you behind your back
They don't invite you to hang outs that include your other friends
Why should you talk about your feelings with others?
Talking about how you feel helps you understand yourself better and can make you feel better. It also helps others understand you, and they might give you advice or support.
What's something you should avoid when someone else is talking?
Interrupting
Not giving eye contact
Texting in the middle of a conversation
Act uninterested
What would you do if someone made a hurtful joke?
Politely say you didn't appreciate what was said, and explain why it offended you
It's important to remain calm
How can your body language show confidence?
Standing up tall and happy
If you look down or slouch, you look uninterested
What’s the difference between healthy and toxic friendships?
Healthy friendships last a long time
Toxic friendships don't last very long and you are always fighting with each other
What’s something you can do to feel better when you're upset?
You can take a break, go for a walk, listen to music, or talk to someone you trust. Doing something you enjoy helps you calm down.
What are some ways to show interest in what someone is saying without speaking?
Smile and maintain eye contact
Nodding and leaning in
I'm sorry but I don't want to get in trouble
I won't give you my answers, but I can help you with the questions
Why should your facial expression match your words?
Because the person you're talking to will know you are faking your emotions
What should you do if a friend never listens but always wants to hang out?
Have an honest conversation and work things out
Why is it important to understand how others feel?
It helps you be kind and respectful. If you understand someone’s feelings, you can be a better friend and avoid making things worse if they’re having a tough time.