Conversation Skills
What are some good ways to start a conversation with someone new?
By greeting them and introducing yourself. (Ex, hi, hey, hello, my name is _______.
How can you tell if someone is happy, sad, or angry?
By paying attention to their facial expressions, tone of voice, and posture.
Is it okay to hug someone you just met? Why or why not?
It is not okay to hug someone you just met. Why?_________
How can you tell if someone is upset with you?
They may act differently or be avoidant.
This is a polite way to let someone know they’re too close.
What is "Can you please give me a little space?"?
What do you say when someone says “Hi” to you?
Answer or respond nicely (Ex, hi, hey, hello)
What should you do if someone looks upset?
Ask if they're okay or give them space.
What does it mean to respect someone’s personal space?
Provide enough space between you and the other personal so both feel comfortable.
What can you do if you and a friend want to do different things?
Talk about it, compromise
What can you do if you don't know what to say in a group?
Listen more
Make a follow up comment
ask questions
provide silence
How do you know when it’s your turn to talk in a conversation?
The other person stops talking and it's looking at me.
Or if the other person asks a question.
What do you do if someone is laughing and you’re not sure why?
Ask them to explain
How do you know if someone wants to be left alone?
If they keep quiet, avoid eye contact, seem closed off.
What do you say if someone is being bossy or unfair?
Apologize
Ask, How so?
Why is it important to take turns in games or conversations?
Everyone gets time to share
Builds social skills
Make connections
What can you do if you don't know what to say in a group?
Continue to listen
Wait for a pause
Make a comment
What makes you feel comfortable when you're upset?
Open ended
What are things friends do for each other?
Listen, help, support, etc.
How can you make up after an argument?
Apologize
Talk about it
Compromise
How do you know if a joke is appropriate to share?
Based on the reaction of other
If it's a nice, non-discriminatory content
How can you show you're listening to someone?
By being attentive (Ex. making eye contact, head nodding, facial expressions)
What makes you feel uncomfortable when you're upset?
Open ended
What should you do if someone is being unkind or teasing you?
Share how you feel appropriate
Rely on your coping skills
Leave the room
What’s a good way to calm down when you’re frustrated with someone?
Hugging or touching should only happen when this is given.
What is "permission or consent"?