Expected Behaviors 1
What should you do if you want to speak during a lesson?
Raise your hand and wait to be called on or in social skills, wait until someone is done talking, then speak
What is one way to show you are listening to someone?
Eye contact, nodding, or responding on topic.
If you feel angry, what is one strategy you can use to calm down?
Take deep breaths, count, or take a break.
What does it mean to Read the Room?
Look around and see what others are doing.
What does flexible thinking mean?
Being able to adjust when things don’t go as planned.
If the teacher is giving directions, what should your body and voice be doing?
Body still, eyes on speaker, quiet voice.
How can we start a conversation with someone?
Ask a question/make a comment. Think about what they may like to talk about.
What should you do if two people want the same item?
Take turns, compromise.
Joey said you are bad at the trumpet? Is this a think it or say it?
Why is this a think it? (negative comment/insult)
What is one coping skill you can use when you feel upset or stressed?
Deep breathing, counting, taking a break, or asking for help.
What is the expected behavior when asked to begin working independently?
Stay on task given by teacher, work quietly, try your best.
Why is it important not to interrupt others when they are speaking?
It shows respect and helps communication.
What is the first step in solving a problem? For example, you are not sure if you forgot your lunch at home.
Identify the problem. "I don't have a lunch. I will look to make sure, ask for help.
Why is it important to make positive comments or to give compliments?
It makes others feel good.
If a game changes rules or ends early, what is a flexible way to respond?
Stay calm and try a new plan or activity.
If you are confused about an assignment, what is the appropriate next step?
Ask for help politely or raise your hand.
Why do we need to think about personal space?
It makes others uncomfortable when we stand too close.
Why is it important to identify the size of the problem?
To know if I need to ask for help or solve on my own.
Why is it unacceptable (not nice) to talk about someones weight?
Negative comments hurt people's feelings.
What can you tell yourself when something feels unfair or frustrating?
“I can do this,” “It’s okay to be frustrated,” or “I’ll try again, I can stay calm."
What should you do if someone near you is distracting you during class?
Ignore it, ask them politely to stop.
How can you tell if someone wants to end a conversation?
Short answers, looking away, walking off, or saying they need to go.
You decide to make microwave popcorn and you burn it. Is this a small/medium/big problem?
medium or big because you need an adult. It can catch on fire.
Somebody is having a bad day, give an example as to what you can say to him/her.
i.e. "Are you okay?"
Why is flexible thinking important when solving problems with others?
It helps you compromise, stay calm, and find solutions.