Social Skills
True or False: If you have snot running out of your nose you should just leave it if you are busy doing something you need to finish like a game?
False. Get a tissue and blow your nose appropriately
I started cooking something on the stove. It is okay to leave the kitchen to play video games while it cooks. Explain your answer.
It is not okay. Even if it says he will take 10 minutes and you think you will have enough time to play game and be back in time, fire could start if the stove is unattended in the kitchen.
Name 3 activities you can do alone
Play cards, watch TV, work on a hobby, video games, legos, puzzles, exercise, do chores, homework, draw, journal etc.
TRUE or FALSE It is okay to drink soda with every meal.
FALSE. Water intake is important!!!
What qualities do you think make someone a “trusted adult”? Who are the trusted adults in your life?
Trusted adults make kids feel safe, are good listeners and are helpful when the child is facing a challenge. They keep things private if the child does not want others to know, unless it is about safety. It’s normal that this group of trusted adults change as we get older and change schools, classes do outside activities etc.
TRUE OR FALSE: It is ok to look into someone's belongings when they aren't looking if you think they have something that they shouldn't.
FALSE. It is never ok to go through someone else's belongings, especially when they aren't looking, if you are worried you should tell a teacher or trusted adult.
Why is personal space important and ask if you want to touch them for a hug or something?
invading someone's personal space can make them feel uncomfortable or threatened, it's polite to give someone their space and we do not know how they feel about it or if they have had experiences that have made this hard for them.
What makes someone a friend?
Someone that you like spending time with and likes spending time with you. You usually have something in common or like/dislike the same things. You know their name, they are nice to you, they are understanding and patient, can compromise and respect their opinions, feelings etc
Name 3 healthy fruits.
Bananas, Oranges, strawberrys, apples, etc.
True or false: When playing cards or a board game, it is alright to be scream when you lose or make a big deal about how amazing you are when you win.
False. It's okay to feel angry inside but not ok to scream. It is important to be a good sport and congratulate the winner and notice that others may feel bad about losing and it could make them feel worse and.or mad if they feel like you are bragging or taunting them. Remember it is just a game.
What should I do before walking away from someone you are having a conversation with?
Talk before you walk. I should make an appropriate comment such as, "I have to go but maybe we can talk more about this later", "that's cool, interesting, etc but I have to get going" to close out the conversation so that they know you need to stop and am going to walk away without being rude.
Name 3 reasons why school is important
Provides education, teaches responsibility, helps you get a job, helps learn social skills and how to engage appropriately with others, helps to learn new things
True or false: If you don't like someone, it is okay to ignore them when they ask you a question or start to talk to you.
False. It is ok to not like someone but we need to treat them respectfully as we would want to be treated. If you do not want to talk with someone you do not like you still need to acknowlege their questions by answering politely if it is a simple question and if they seem to want to continue and start a conversation you can say you do not want to talk right now or you are doing something etc. It is always important to do things in a respectful way, remember even people we do not like have feelings and they can get hurt just like yours can.
Why is it important to wear deodorant and shower?
So that we don't smell bad/offensive. If you smell bad, others may not have positive thoughts or want to spend time with me.
True or false: It is okay to play online with someone who says they are your age if their voice sounds like it?
False. People online can pretend to be any age they want and may try to trick you into sharing personal information, pictures, or meeting them. You should only play online with people your parents or trusted adult know are real friends or family, and to tell an adult if someone online makes you feel uncomfortable or asks private questions.
When I enter a room to ask someone a question, what's the first thing I should do? Then what do I need to wait for?
I should read the room to see if the person is busy or if the class is in the middle of something and if they are not busy doing something or talking to someone I should let them know I have a question or need help by raising my hand and wait without talking till they see me and call on me. Are there times when it is ok to interrupt?
Why can chores be important?
teaches responsibility, time management, teamwork, problem-solving, helps family, can earn things like an allowance etc, shows people you care.
What does it mean to "follow up," with someone?
Asking them related questions to something they have told you before. By remembering to "follow up" it shows others that you were listening and genuinely care about what they share about themselves.
True or False: It is healthy to only eat chips and ice cream all day.
False, it is important to give your body healthy foods so it is able to have energy.
Name 3 things we can do when we're upset:
Walk away, breathing exercises, talk to someone.. etc (could be more)
Why is it important to treat other people with kindness?
We should treat people the way we want to be treated, and we never know what someone else is going through so kindness is the best response.
How do you politely disagree with someone?
Express your opinion calmly, acknowledge their perspective and not say it is wrong only that you feel differently, agree to disagree, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
A good way to start a conversation when you don't know someone well is to...
Introduce yourself and ask them their name. Ask how they are, what they are doing- ask a related or appropriate question or comment about it.
Is it important to exercise? What benefits does exercise provide?
Yes. Good Health, happiness, assists with good sleep, helps with mood.
What are 2 reasons that you shouldn't pick your nose.
It's dirty and spreads germs.
It's unexpected social behavior from a teenager and people will have negative thoughts.