Conversation Skills
This is what you should do before joining a conversation.
Listen
A good friend usually does this when you are upset
Listen, show support, asks what is wrong.
Making eye contact, facing the person
When you get in a conflict, the best thing to do FIRST is:
a. walk away
b. stay calm
c. run away and tell someone
B. stay calm
This emotion might make your heart beat faster and your body tense
This type of question helps keep the conversation going and cannot be answered with a yes or no
Open-ended question
This means treating others how you want to be treated.
Crossing arms, rolling eyes, or turning away usually shows this feeling.
disinterest, frustration
This helps explain your feelings WITHOUT blaming others
I statements
Taking deep breaths during a difficult moment helps you do what?
calm down, regulate emotions
This behavior shows you are paying attention during a conversation.
eye contact, nodding, responding appropriately
If a friend shares a secret, you should do this.
Keep it private
Standing next to someone can make them feel this.
uncomfortable
What is empathy?
This is a polite way to join a conversation
"Can I join?"
This skill helps friendships grow and includes sharing and turn taking
Cooperation
This body language helps show confidence when talking to others
standing or sitting with good posture
What does considering a consequence mean?
Thinking about what might happen after your choice
Walking away, counting to 10, or using coping skills helps with this
self-control
If someone is talking and you interrupt, this is what you should do next.
Apologize and let them finish
If a friend keeps pressuring you to do something wrong, this is the best choice.
Setting a boundary or saying no
nonverbal communication
If you cannot solve a problem safely, what should you do?
Ask a trusted adult for help
This word means recognizing your OWN feelings and behaviors.
self-awareness