Topic transitions
There is a long pause in the conversation, what should you do
change topics
Kayla: "I can't wait for break!"
Bob: "Same! What are your thanksgiving plans?"
On topic or off topic?
On
What feelings make you cry
sad, scary, joy
You see a student laying down in the nurse's office. What might they be thinking?
I don't feel good.
How can you change a topic
By making a comment, asking a questions, etc.
You don't know much about a topic a friend is talking to you about, what are some things you could do?
Ask questions to find out more detail, let them know you don't have much experience with that topic, etc.
What does it mean if you have butterflies in your stomach
Nervous
You and your friend had plans to sit together at lunch, but you sit by someone else instead. What might your friend be thinking?
"I'm upset that you don't want to sit by me, and you didn't even tell me."
You didn't hear what the person you're speaking to said but you know you need to make a comment or ask a question because they are waiting for your response. What should you do?
Tell them that you didn't here the question and ask if they could please repeat it
Sally: "I am so excited for this weekend!"
Greg: "I am getting a new video game tonight."
On topic or off topic?
Off topic
What feelings make you clench your muscles
anger, mad frustrated
Your teacher has reminded you twice not to talk in class. You talk again, and she asks you to speak with her after class. What is she thinking?
I'm disappointed in you. Now we need to talk about why you're not following directions.
TRUE OR FALSE: It is important to maintain the topic someone is excited to share for a while by asking a few questions because you may learn something new about that person/topic.
TRUE
What should you do if you feel like you've gotten off topic?
Apologize and get back on topic, go back to topic when there's a pause in the conversation, ask questions, etc.
Show how to stay calm when your angry
Deep breaths, walk away, use positive self talk
I can't believe they forgot my birthday.
What are some reasons why topic transitions are good?
You might learn something new, it shows the other person you are interested, it helps build friendships, etc.
TRUE OR FALSE: It's okay to get off topic sometimes, everyone does it! Practicing helps learning how to stay on topic and be a good active listener.
TRUE
Show how to say no when someone offers you something
No thank you
You are eating a Snickers bar at lunch. Your friend tells you they love Snickers bars. The next day, you bring an extra one to give to them. What are they thinking?
Wow! That was so nice of you!