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Self- Talk
Owning It
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100
(raise hand) "Excuse me, I cannot find my map. Would you please help me... (raise hand) "Excuse me, I cannot find my map, would you please wait a minute until I can find it?" (raise hand) "Excuse me, I cannot find my map, could I please have another one?"
Your teacher is starting the lesson about the map of Wisconsin. You are supposed to copy what your teacher has on the board to your map. Finish the following sentence to provide an example of how to ask for help, (raise hand) "Excuse me...
100
"My real friends like me no matter what." "They're just clothes." "Other people probably aren't paying attention." "That person probably didn't mean anything."
Someone makes a comment about what you are wearing. The comment makes you uncomfortable. Give an example of positive self talk you could use in this situation.
100
"Yeah, I know. I don't buy my own clothes - do you?" "Yeah, I know. My mom made me wear it."
Someone says that your shirt is ugly. What statement could you use to "own it" and reject what the person said?
100
A friend tells you a secret, what should you do?
What is keep the secret
100
This is what you say when a girl sneezes
What is "Bless You"
200
teachers, principal, psychologist, social worker, friends
Name three people or types of people who you could ask for help at school if you could not solve a conflict by yourself.
200
"I can find another group." "It isn't because they don't like me, they just already had too many people."
Your teacher is telling students to get into groups. You go to join a group and they tell you that you can't be in the group. Give an example of positive self talk you could use in this situation.
200
"I know! I annoy myself sometimes! I love that show so much."
You like to talk about your favorite TV show .... A LOT. Someone says, "Oh my gosh! All you ever talk about is that show! Its so annoying!" How could you own this?
200
A friend needs you, what do you do.
What is help the friend
200
What you do when you are at a door with a girl
What is open the door for her
300
"Stop" "I feel uncomfortable when you ask me to do that. I won't. Stop it." "You can say those words if you want to, but I'm not going to. Leave me alone." "I feel upset when you keep bothering me to do something I don't want to do. Stop it."
Some friends at lunch think it is funny to say bad words. They are trying to get you to say the words. Give an example of how you can assert yourself in this situation.
300
"My teacher cares. My teacher is just busy." "Maybe another time"
You really want to talk to your teacher about something. You are excited about sharing it. Your teacher is working on something and is not interested in what you have to say. Give an example of positive self talk that can get you through this situation.
300
"Yeah, you're an All-Star at kickball. I'm much better at baseball."
Someone says, "You can't play kickball. I'm way better than you." How can you turn this situation around by "owning it"?
300
You see a friend do drugs, what do you do
What is get them help, tell them not to do it, and tell a trusted adult
300
This is what you do when a girl tells you that she does not want to be your girlfriend
What is leave her alone
400
"Wow, you're a real expert." "Ok, good thing you know everything." "Whatever you say."
Give 2 examples of a comeback line you could use if someone continues to act in a bossy way toward you.
400
"I will start with what I know, and then move on." "I will write my name, then try my best." "I will pick the answer I think is correct and move on, even if I'm not sure that I'm right."
There is a social studies test and you feel like you don't know ANYTHING on it! Give an example of positive self talk that can help you in this situation.
400
"I know - I did some weird stuff. Sometimes I just get really angry." "I know what I did looked scary, don't worry. I'll pull it together."
You lose your temper one day. You tip over your desk, rip papers, and show some other unexpected behaviors. You see a peer look at you strangely. How can you turn this situation around by "owning it"?
400
What happens when a friend falls down
What is you should help them up and not laugh at them
400
This is what you should do when you drive in a car with a girl
What is open the door and let her get in the front seat
500
Any situation where you could be in danger or where you could be hurt.
Give an example of a situation that you should try to AVOID instead of using a comeback line or asserting yourself.
500
"They aren't being mean to me, maybe I should approach them." "I know what they're talking about, I know I could share something too." "I know how to start a conversation, I could say, "Hey guys, I heard you talking about...."
It always seems like groups of kids at school are hanging out and you're by yourself. What is an example of positive self talk that could help you in this situation?
500
"Yeah, I know ______ different. It's because...."
Sometimes because of a disability, a person may act, walk, talk, or look differently than others. If someone said, "That's weird" about a person who walks, talks, acts, or looks differently, what would you tell this person to say to "own it"
500
Tell an adult Stand up for the friend Invite the friend to move to a new spot with you.
You see a friend being picked on in the lunchroom. People are saying mean things. What should you do?
500
This is what you do to make a girl feel good about herself
What is give her a compliment, like you look beautiful