What is a non verbal cue?
Gestures, body language, facial expression
What is tone?
Pitch (feeling or emotion)
If I'm not talking in a conversation, I am ....
Listening
Dad made dinner for the family. He made hamburgers and french fries. The hamburgers are cooked too much and they taste funny.
THINK IT or SAY IT?
THINK IT
What would you say?
Define Friendship.
You often share something in common, people you can trust, people you feel comfortable with, people you spend time with, both people choose to be friends with each other.
What non-verbal clues do you see?
Facial expressions, body language, getures
What is Volume?
The loudness of the speaker (from soft to loud)
What is good body language?
Eye contact
Facial expressions
Body posture
You are walking in the hallway and you see someone carrying a big box. It looks very heavy and they are having a hard time carrying it.
What would you do?
-Ask if they need help
-Offer to carry something
Demonstrate a friendly greeting.
Actions: wave, smile, nod head, thumbs up
Say: Hi, hello, how's it going, what's up
What non verbals do you see?
facial expressions, body language
Say "I love cafeteria food." in an ANGRY tone.
Angry
Why is it important to stay on topic?
So the listener doesn't become confused.
You are at the movies with a friend. A bunch of kids in the row behind you are talking and laughing. You are distracted and cannot listen to the movie.
THINK IT or SAY IT
THINK IT- annoyed, frustrated, angry
SAY IT- "Politely ask them to stop."
DO- Tell a manager
What are some positive qualities you look for in a friend?
Trustworthy
Honest
Dependable
Loyal
Good listener
Funny / Fun to be around
Kind
and more.....
What non verbals do you see?
facial expressions, body language, gestures
Say, "I love math!" with a surprise tone.
SURPRISE
What can we do to extend a conversation?
Making a comment about the topic
Asking a question regarding the topic
Every day the same kid cuts in front of you in line. You say, “If it is so important to you to be first then okay be first..”
THINK IT or SAY IT
THINK IT- annoyed, frustrated
SAY IT- use a calm tone
Ignores you when they are around others.
Talks about you to others.
Laughs at you when you make a mistake.
Are these qualities of a good friend or bad friend?
Bad Friend
They only talk about themselves
They don't listen
Rude
Disrespectful
Make fun of you and others
Mean
Gossip
Don’t always tell the truth
What non verbals do you use in your everyday life?
example of facial expressions, body language, gestures
Order a pizza in a scared tone.
SCARED
Give an example of how to start a conversation.
When you get home from school, your mom tells you to do your homework. You’re tired and don’t want to. You say, “Okay, but I need a little break, I’m so tired. I’ll get to them right after.”
THINK IT or SAY IT
SAY IT- calm tone of voice
What is bonded friendship?
You seek each other out to make sure things are okay for the other person. You are spending a lot of time together in the community and at each others home.