Little, Medium, Big
Social Skills
do this not that
100

I forgot to turn in my homework.

Little, I can turn it in when I remember 

100

I am having a hard time with a math problem, what can I do?

Ask for help 

100

I am in class and the work is just too hard, I am getting very frustrated to I rip up my work

ask for a break or ask for help

200

I do not know how to complete a problem on my math homework.

little, I can ask for help

200

it is the end of class and I haven't finished my work, what can I do?

finish it later at home, or ask the teacher what I can do

200

I don't know how to do this math problem, I cried and threw the book. what should I do instead?

Ask for help

300

I have not done my homework for the last several days

medium, if I continue not doing my homework it can turn into a big problem.

300

my classmate is making fun of mean and calling me mean names, what can I do?

tell the teacher 

300

I am not doing well on this assignment and I feel like I cannot do anything right, I cry because I know I will not be able to to it 

I can use my positive affirmations and think about the good things about myself

400

I got so angry in class i knocked my desk over. 

Big, this can get me in big trouble. 

400

my classmate is eating alone and looks sad, what should I do?

Ask them to eat with me. 

400

I felt like I might not have enough time to finish work. I cried so hard I had to go home. What can I do instead?

Finish my work at home. 

500

someone is hurting me and being really mean to me 

big, I need to tell an adult right away 

500

I am feeling overwhelmed with my classwork, I feel like I might have a tantrum, what should I do?

Ask for a break. 

500

I am in PE and we have to run, my legs are very tired and begin to get sore, I lay down of the field and scram so much I have to go home. 

Ask the teacher for a break, if they are far away I can stop for a second to rest and then walk slowly to them to ask for a break