Self-Advocacy
What does self-advocacy mean?
Standing up for yourself respectfully, asking for what you need, speaking up appropriately.
What is direct communication?
Saying clearly what you mean.
If your friend didn’t text you back, name one non-negative reason why.
Busy, phone died, forgot, studying, with family, didn’t see it.
What is sarcasm?
Saying the opposite of what you mean (often in a joking or teasing way).
What is Mrs. Brodi studying in school?
Speech therapy!
If you don’t understand directions in class, what is one way to advocate for yourself?
Raise hand and ask for clarification, say “Can you explain that again?”, ask for an example.
What is indirect communication?
Hinting or implying instead of saying it clearly.
A classmate snaps at you during group work. What are two possible reasons?
Stressed, tired, frustrated, overwhelmed, misunderstanding, having a bad day.
If someone spills water and their friend says, “Wow, smooth move,” is that sarcasm?
Yes
What college/school does Mrs. Brodi go to?
ASU!
You need more time on an assignment. What is a respectful way to ask?
I’m having trouble finishing. May I have extra time?” (Polite tone, explain reason.)
Is this direct or indirect?
“I’m cold.” (When sitting near a window that’s open.)
You think someone is ignoring you. What are two other explanations before assuming they’re being rude?
Didn’t hear you, distracted, phone died, stressed, busy.
How can you tell someone is being sarcastic?
Tone of voice, facial expression, exaggerated words, situation context.
What type of pet does Mrs. Brodi have? and how many?
Two dogs!
What is the difference between self-advocating and complaining?
Self-advocating = respectful solution-focused request.
Complaining = blaming, whining, no solution.
Is this direct or indirect?
“Can you please stop tapping your pencil?”
You think a rule is unfair. Why might the teacher see it differently?
They have to manage the whole class, ensure safety, follow school policy, treat everyone equally.
When might sarcasm hurt someone’s feelings?
If they don’t understand it’s a joke, sensitive topic, said in mean tone, public embarrassment.
Where did Mrs. Brodi get married?
Vegas!
When might it NOT be appropriate to self-advocate in the moment?
During emergencies, when someone else is speaking and you interrupt, when timing is inappropriate (wait for a better moment).
Why might someone use indirect communication instead of direct?
To be polite, avoid conflict, protect feelings, feel less awkward.
Your friend is quiet during lunch. Name one possible reason.
Tired, upset, distracted, not feeling well, thinking.
A rumor is spreading about you. What is the most mature way to respond?
Stay calm, avoid escalating, talk to trusted adult if needed, clarify truth respectfully, don’t spread more drama.
Where is Mrs. Brodi from?
California