Feelings
You are playing basketball and accidentally get hit by the ball in the stomach, what do you do?
It was an accident, tell them that it is okay, accidents happen.
What can you do if your friend is feeling sad?
You can listen to them, offer support, try to cheer them up
Would it be appropriate to tell a Zoom social group a problem that is happening at your house?
No. If you have something private that you would like to talk about, wait until it's a 1:1 session with a teacher or counselor.
When you join groups, you should greet everyone and ask people how they're doing. True or false.
True. It makes people feel welcome into the group & it's nice to have conversation before groups begin.
Your parents or guardians want you to complete one of your regular chores but you are in the middle of something. How can you handle this?
Calmly explain what you are doing and see if they will let you wait until you finish to do the chore.
What might you feel if someone you are trying to talk to is ignoring you?
Sad, confused, or upset
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did to them?
Apologize, say sorry, and listen
What should you do if you are getting answers wrong during a group game and you're beginning to feel upset and disappointed?
Ask if you can take a break; take deep breaths; talk to your teacher about it; use encouraging self-talk in your head
True or False. When someone says you did something wrong they are being mean.
False- most of the time when someone tells you that you have done something wrong they are only trying to help you.
Your parents/guardians tell you it's time to put your phone/electronics away, but you try to sneak it anyway. What would the consequences be if you get caught?
Phone taken, restrictions on screen time the next day, angry feelings on both sides, etc
How might you feel if your best friend is talking about the really cool things that her mom just bought her?
Jealous or happy for her
People are making fun of your friend and you see them calling him names. What should you do?
Stand up for your friend and tell an adult if needed Talk to your friend after and make sure they're ok.
What can you do if you are feeling frustrated?
Talk to your parents, counselor, teacher. Use one of your coping skills.
Why is it important to stay on topic during a conversation?
It makes others happy, shows you are interested
Who can we give nicknames to?
A. Friends
B. Counselors
C. Teachers/other adults
A. Friends.
It's not appropriate to give nicknames to therapists or teachers/other adults.
How might someone feel if they have done something wrong and they know it was wrong?
Guilty
What can you do if you are stuck inside during COVID 19 and you are feeling sad and isolated from friends?
Ask to video chat with friends, ask to meet a friend outside, call a friend, play video games online with friends
A friend has said something that hurts your feelings. What can you do?
Tell them how you feel with a nice voice and explain why. Avoid yelling at them.
Sometimes we can have upset feelings. What should you do when you feel upset during school?
Ask to take a break, give yourself lot of positive self talk, talk to an adult at school
Your parents/guardians are in an argument with each other about something that doesn't involve you and you can tell one of them is "right". What do you do?
Let them finish their adult argument without you intervening.
True or False- you should never be angry
False. It is ok to feel any feeling you feel. But how you express those feelings has to be appropriate
When signing into a Zoom group, you should be ready, focused, and dressed. True or False.
True. Make sure you have on appropriate clothing for school and are sitting in a chair away from other people and distractions.
What is the best way to deal with a group member that keeps talking over you?
Say "excuse me ____ but I was still speaking." Then continue with what you were saying before.
What is bullying?
It can look like a lot of different things but it's when one person is trying to intimidate another person.
Physical: pushing, pinching, etc.
Threatening: "If you tell the teacher, I'm going to ..."
Verbal: use of mean or rude words
What are 2 things that we should do to respect other people if we are in the community during COVID-19?
Options:
1. Personal space (ideally 6 ft)
2. Wear a mask
3. Wash your hands