Say it or not!
People Files
Expected
Perspective
Big deal or not?
100
Define Social Filter
The tool in our brain we use to keep unexpected thoughts in and let expected thoughts out.
100
Define Social Wonders
Questions we ask other people to get information about their likes, dislikes, and life.
100
Give 2 examples of expected behaviors for the hallway.
1) Walk 2) Walk on the right side 3) Use the far stairs 4) Talking at an indoor volume 5) Go straight to where you're headed
100
Where might this person be?
Do you think she knows anyone in this picture?
Maybe in a big crowd?
She probably does not know anyone
100
List 2 examples of small problems
Mom tells you "no" to more iPad, you trip, time to clean up, etc.
200
Do or don't? Your teacher tells you that it is time to put your chromebook away, and you say, "I'm not doing that."
Don't! What could you say instead?
200
Come up with a social wonder question you could ask to gain information about someone in conversation?
What school do you go to, what do you like to do in your free time, did you have a good weekend, do you like movies, etc.
200
Give 2 examples of expected behaviors in the cafeteria. (hint... use a positive example instead of "not throwing food")
1) Eating my food 2) Keeping the food on my plate or in my mouth 3) Inside volume 4) Appropriate conversations
200
How might the girl be feeling based on her non-verbal clues?
Is the person having comfortable or uncomfortable thoughts? How can you tell?
Upset, scared, anxious, nervous
They are probably having uncomfortable thoughts because they look scared, upset, nervous, etc.
200
Identify 2 examples of medium problems
A broken arm, a flat tire on a car, bully, etc.
300
Say it or not? Your teacher tells you it's time to do classwork and you say, "Ok."
Say it! What's an example of an unexpected response?
300
"What do you have going on later today?"
Is this an example of social wonder or world wonder?
Social wonder
300
How do expected behaviors make others feel?
Happy, proud, relaxed/calm, and relieved
300
1) what is happening in the picture?
2) what might the girl in the middle be thinking?
1) the class is throwing things around
2) answers may vary
300
Identify 2 examples of large problems
House is on fire, someone dies, you have to get surgery, etc.
400
What is something expected to say about a person's halloween costume that you don't like?
"Cool costume" or "I can tell you like______"
400
What is an example of NONEXPLICIT information that you can add to someone's people file?
Overhearing their favorite color, watching them play their favorite game, what lunch choice they pick, etc.
400
What consequences do you experience when you do class work in an expected manner?
Teacher will give you compliments and have good thoughts about you, you might get a sticker for your chart, might get to add a star to the jar, get good grades, etc.
400
1) where is this happening?
2) what could have caused this?
1) a classroom
2) someone arguing, kid wanted to cause trouble, etc
400
Identify criteria for a large problem
-Involves a larger group of people
-Dangerous
-Definitely need help to fix it
-Could take a long time to fix
500
What is something unexpected to say about someone's halloween costume you don't like?
"I don't like that costume very much" "That's weird," etc.
500
Tell me two things you have in your people file about your parent/guardian!
Answers may vary
500
How do you feel when you do classwork in an expected manner?
Happy, proud, calm, etc.
500
1) what is unexpected in this image?
2) what is expected in this image?
1) people throwing things around
2) girl in the middle with her head down
500
Identify criteria of a medium problem
-Involves a small group of people
-You might need help to fix it
-You may feel uncomfortable
-It may take a little while to fix