Expected Behaviors
Unexpected Behaviors
Behaviors & Impacting Emotions
Communication
In Public
100
Name an example of an expected behavior
Listening, Honesty, Clean up after self, Respect belongings
100
Name an example of an unexpected behavior
Inappropriate language, Interrupting, Fighting, Yelling
100
Do our behaviors impact the feelings of those around us?
Yes. Our behaviors can impact the feelings of those around us.
100
Can communication impact mood of others? How?
Yes! The words we say and information we share can impact how others feel and how they respond
EX: listening when someone is talking
100
You are 1 other person are in an elevator. Where should you NOT stand?
Very close to them
200
Name an expected behavior at school
Walk, Stay in seat, Pay attention, Raise hand
200
Name an unexpected behavior at school
Not listening, Interrupting, Being on device, Out of seat, Rolling in chair
200
Name 3 emotions you feel when you observe unexpected behaviors
Frustration, Uncomfortable, Upset, Stress
200
What is active listening?
Making the choice to listen, understand what they are saying, and retain (keep) the information being shared
Remember- the difference between listen and hear
EX: Asking Q"s, eye contact, nodding, facing the speaker
200
You are in a restaurant. Your parents ask you to order. What is an expected behavior?
Smile, be polite, make eye contact and tell them in a clear, inside voice
300
What can you do when you see someone doing an expected behavior
tell them good job, encourage them to continue postive beahviors
300
What can you do when others engage in unexpected behaviors?
ignore them, ask them to stop, tell an adult, do not follow in their footsteps.
300
Name 3 emotions you feel when you observe expected behaviors
Happy, Proud, Comfortable, Content
300
Give an example of using an I message to communicate your feelings
I feel_____ when you _____. I would like ______
great job!
300
Give 2 examples of some unexpected behaviors in a super market or store.
Yelling, running, hiding from your parents, talking to strangers that didn't talk to you first.
400
How do expected behaviors make us feel?
Content, happy, pleased, regulated
400
What do unexpected behaviors make us feel?
Dysregulated, upset, annoyed
400
Demonstrate 1 emotion you feel when you observe unexpected behaviors
Frustration, Uncomfortable, Upset, Stress
400
Why does yelling at someone not work?
Yelling is an unexpected behavior. There are healthier ways to communicate negative feelings such as using an I statement
400
What are 2 expected behaviors in a parking lots?
Stay with your parents, walking, looking all around for oncoming cars
500
Why should be engage in expected behaviors?
Expected behaviors make others feel safe and happy, we are making good decisions even when upset, we are using coping skills to help us feel better, there are no consequences for expected behaviors
500
Why should we not engage in unexpected behaviors
Others feel unsafe, uncomfortable. There are consequences, we are not using coping skills to help us make good choices
500
Demonstrate 1 emotion you feel when you observe expected behaviors
Happy, Proud, Comfortable, Content
500
Why is it hard to sometimes communicate our feelings in the moment?
When angry or upset, we may say things that are not true or hurtful. Using coping skills first can help us feel more calm and we are able to better talk about our feelings
500
Your teacher or parents introduce you to a stranger. What behaviors are unexpected?
You speak too softly, you don't make eye contact, you ignore them