Your friend sits with you at lunch and eats most of your lunch when you go to the bathroom. What is the size of the problem?
Medium, now you don't have a lunch and have to ask an adult for help.
Carrie is really upset because there is a substitute teacher. She pretends to be sick and spends all day at the nurse
stuck
Lily is trying to play with Sam so she tells him "pretend we are astronauts and this is space". Sam wasn't listening and starts pretending he is a cowboy. What should Lily do?
Repeat what she wants to play or find a way to combine space and cowboys
Sally got a lot of questions wrong on her test and she is sad. She takes some deep breaths and says "I did my best" and goes out to recess. What was the size of her reaction
Small reaction (to a small problem)
John wants to be on the purple team, but they are full. He goes with the flow and joins the green team
flexible!
Carrie really wants to pretend to be puppies, but Max wants to pretend to be cats. What should they do?
Take turns playing each game or combine!
You are sitting at the table in a small group and the person sitting next to you is tapping his fingers and stomping his feet. It is annoying. What is the size of the problem?
Small, you can ask him to stop, ignore it, or move away.
Max likes reading to himself. The teacher asks him to read aloud and he is nervous, so Max tells himself "you can do it!" and reads aloud
flexible
Randy walks up to his classmates who are playing a game and he wants to join. What should he do to figure out what game they are playing?
He can listen for what they are saying and what they are acting out. If he can't figure it out he can ask.
Jason fell at recess and is having trouble walking for the rest of the day. What is the size of the problem?
Big!
Ben is playing a game on the iPad. Zane wants to play so he grabs the iPad away from Ben.
stuck
Sarah is playing classroom with her friends, but she said the rule is that she has to be the teacher every time they play. Is this a problem? How will her friends feel? How can they solve this?
Yes, everyone should get to take turns. They may feel frustrated and not want to play if they are not given some chances too. They should take turns or they can all be teachers.
You are talking to your friend while the teacher is teaching her lesson. The teacher asks you to stop and you continue. What is the size of this problem?
Medium, other students can't learn if you are talking and you've already been asked to stop.
Lilly forgets that it is library day. She left her book at home and becomes very upset that she doesn't have her book. She starts yelling.
stuck (big reaction)
There are no balls at recess and the field is roped off. What are some imaginary games that the kids can play to have some fun? Can you name 5?
Name 5!