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Conflict resolution
Children
Finances
Infedility
How well do you know me
100

How do you typically approach conflicts in your relationship?

  • By avoiding them
  • By arguing and raising voices
100

Have you both discussed your reasons for not having children?

  • Yes, we have different priorities.
  • No, we haven't had that conversation yet.
100

How do you both currently manage your finances as a couple?

  • We have a joint account for shared expenses.
  • We keep separate finances for independence.
100

Have either of you been unfaithful in the relationship?

  • Yes, one of us has been unfaithful.
  • No, neither of us has been unfaithful.
100

How well do you know each other's likes and dislikes?

  • We know each other's favorite foods and hobbies.
  • We are not sure about each other's preferences.
200

What specific issues or behaviors trigger conflicts between you?

  • Money
  • Household chores
200

How do you both envision your future together without children?

  • Traveling and pursuing career goals.
  • Focusing on hobbies and personal growth.


200

Have you discussed your financial goals and priorities as a couple?

  • Yes, we want to save for a house.
  • No, we haven't talked about it yet.
200

How did the infidelity come to light, and how did each of you react?

  • It was discovered through text messages, and there was shock and anger.
  • It was confessed during a heart-to-heart conversation, leading to sadness and disappointment.
200

Can you name each other's closest friends or family members?

  • Yes, we know each other's friends and family well.
  • No, we are not familiar with each other's inner circle.
300

How do you both communicate during conflicts? Are there any communication barriers?

  • We interrupt each other
  • We don't listen actively


Effective communication is key to resolving conflicts constructively.

300

Have you considered how not having children might impact your relationship in the long term?

  • We believe it will allow us more freedom and flexibility.
  • We're unsure about the potential impact.
300

Do you have disagreements about money or spending habits?

  • Yes, we argue about budgeting and spending.
  • No, we generally agree on financial matters.
300

Have you discussed the reasons or circumstances that led to the infidelity?

  • Yes, we have talked about underlying issues and triggers.
  • No, we haven't delved into the reasons behind the infidelity.
300

Do you know each other's childhood experiences and significant life events?

  • We are aware of each other's childhood memories and key life moments.
  • We have not shared much about our past experiences.
400

Have you explored past experiences or patterns that may be influencing your current conflicts?

  • No clear boundaries
  • Different expectations



Understanding the root causes of conflicts can help address underlying issues.

400

Do you have a support system in place for your decision not to have children?

  • Yes, our families and friends are understanding.
  • No, we haven't discussed it with anyone.
400

Have you talked about how to handle financial emergencies or unexpected expenses?

  • We have an emergency fund in place.
  • We haven't discussed this aspect yet.
400

How do you both feel about rebuilding trust and working through the aftermath of infidelity?

  • We are both committed to therapy and rebuilding trust.
  • We are unsure if we can overcome this betrayal.
400

Are you familiar with each other's fears, aspirations, and dreams for the future?

  • We have discussed our fears, goals, and dreams openly.
  • We have not delved deep into each other's hopes and fears.
500

How do you express your feelings and emotions during conflicts?


  • We argue until someone gives in
  • We avoid talking about it


Understanding and expressing emotions constructively can lead to more productive conflict resolution.

500

Have you thought about how you will address questions or societal pressures regarding not having children?

  • We're prepared to handle inquiries confidently.
  • We're still figuring out how to respond.
500

Are there any financial secrets or hidden debts between you that need to be addressed?

  • Yes, we have individual debts we haven't disclosed.
  • No, we are transparent about our financial situation.
500

Have you established boundaries and agreements to prevent future infidelity and foster a healthy relationship?

  • Yes, we have set clear boundaries and are working on rebuilding trust.
  • No, we are unsure how to move forward and prevent future infidelity.
500

Do you know each other's communication styles and emotional triggers?

  • We understand how to communicate effectively and support each other emotionally.
  • We are still learning about each other's communication needs and triggers.