Sharks
Is solving problems like a shark a healthy way to deal with conflict?
NOOOO!!!
Is solving problems like an owl a healthy way to deal with conflict?
YEEEESS!
Which of the 3 animal problem solvers tries to solve problems by considering everyone's feelings?
Owls
With whom do you seem to have the most problems?
Siblings, parents, friends, classmates, etc. (any response is correct)
Are people who handle conflicts like sharks interested in finding solutions that work for everyone involved in the conflict?
NOOOOO! They're only looking out for themselves and what's best for them!
(answers vary)
Which of the 3 animal problem solvers only cares about themselves when trying to find solutions to problems?
Shark
Can you get better at solving problems "the owl way" if you practice?
Yes, practice always helps us improve!
Do the friends of people who handle conflict like sharks feel like they matter when they're having problems with their "shark" friends? Explain your answer.
No because their shark friends don't consider their feelings or ideas. They also might blame them, say mean things to them, or try to scare or even fight them. (answers vary)
Why is solving problems like an owl a healthy way to solve problems?
When trying to solve a problem, they consider everyone's feelings so no one gets left out.
They try to think of many ways to solve the problem.
They come up with solutions that work for EVERYONE.
Which of the 3 animal problem solvers is afraid of sharing their feelings?
Turtle
What's a synonym for the word "conflict"?
problem, disagreement, etc.
You and your friend who is a shark problem solver both want to use the last classroom iPad. What might he or she say when you say that you want to use it?
They might:
blame, use mean words
try to scare you
not care about how you feel
(answers vary)
What does someone who is trying to solve problems assertively do?
They will try to solve the problems as soon as they happen and not wait for someone else to do it.
Do you think that shark problem solvers have lots of friends? Explain.
No because people don't feel like shark problem solvers care about them. Shark problem solvers often blame or say hurtful words to them when they are in conflict.
(answer vary)
What often happens to relationships when problems are solved in unhealthy ways (like the shark does)?
Relationships are damaged or ruined when problems are solved in unhealthy ways. (answers vary)
What might someone who solves problems like a shark do when they have a problem with another person?
They will try to scare people they're having problems with.
They will attack by blaming, saying mean words, or fighting.
Why is it important to take everyone's feelings into consideration when solving problems?
Because it shows you care about others when you take their feelings into consideration; you're treating them the way you want to be treated; it isn't fair to only consider 1 or 2 people's feelings
Why do you think the turtle problem solver might be afraid to share their feelings?
They don't want to get the other person/people involved in the situation mad at them.
(answers vary)
True or False: Conflict can be positive. Explain your answer.
True.
Problems get solved, friendships improve, helps us realize that something needs to change because someone isn't happy with what's occurring, it gives people a chance to share their feelings, etc.