How do I deal?
100

You're invited to a birthday party by your best friend

How do you cope, deal with the feeling, or calm yourself down to be there?


What did you pick that could help you through nervous/anxious feelings?

Advocating for yourself (decide how long you may want to stay)

Take breaks 

Bring a fidget/tool

200

You have to go to the dentist

How do you cope, deal with the feeling, or calm yourself down to be there?


What did you pick that could help you through nervous/anxious feelings?

Ask for parent help

Use a fidget/tool

Positive self-talk

Watch favorite movie/show

Headphones

300

Meeting a new person

How do you cope, deal with the feeling, or calm yourself down to talk with them?


What did you pick that could help you through nervous/anxious feelings?

Positive self-talk (I can do this)

Use a fidget


400

Having to do something that you don't want to do, but needs to be done

How do you cope, deal with the feeling, or calm yourself down to complete the task?


What did you pick that could help you through frustrated/annoyed/anxious feelings?

Positive self-talk

Break the task into sections (if possible)

Taking deep breaths

Listen to music while you do it

500

Answering these questions in social skills group

How do you cope, deal with the feeling, or calm yourself down to participate/answer?


What did you pick that could help you through nervous/anxious/annoyed feelings?

Use a fidget

Advocate for yourself (ask to clarify/help)

Taking deep breaths