Subtle
"Just one time"
Social Media
Relationships
Refusal Skills
100

a group is making fun of the brand of shoes you're wearing. how would you respond without getting defensive

no right answer-judged based

100

someone offers you a vape in the school bathroom and says, "it’s just flavored air, not a big deal." what would you do?

say no and leave the bathroom

100

someone starts a mean group chat making fun of people and adds you, they start roasting a friend of yours. what would you do?

maybe leave the groupchat or find a way to shut it down
100

someone you're dating wants you to skip an important event to be with them, but this event is important to you. how could you respond

try to put your goals first without being mean and explain that to them, if they don't understand you prob shouldn't be dating them

100

act out a cold shoulder

act= ignoring a suggestion to do something

200

people are talking about a teacher they hate, but you like them. They ask "don't you hate her too?" how would you respond while sticking with your opinion but keeping your cool

no correct answer - judged based

200

at a bonfire a friend hands you a drink and says, "just try one sip, no one will ever know." what would you do

keep saying no until they stop, if they don't remove yourself from the situation

200

someone is trying to get you to send an inappropriate picture to someone you like/or just to them. how would you approach this?

1st digital footprint is so real, once it's on the internet it's there forever. but you should set a firm boundary with that person

200

your bestfriend wants you to lie to their parents so they can go meet up with someone they aren't supposed to see. do you break their trust? what would you do? 

you could refuse to be their alibi, especially if it's something that could hurt them

200

better idea: someone tries trespassing

saying something like "i have a better idea" with a safer/better option instead of trespassing

300

your friends are all staying out past your curfew and tell you "Your parents are so strict, just tell them you're at the library." how could you leave the group without feeling embarassed

no correct answer-judged based

300

a group is heading to a house where parents aren't home to drink. they say "don't be a buzzkill just come for like 10 minutes." how would you respond

give a logical excuse to head home instead like your tired and need to wake up early or straight up that you don't want to

300

an influencer you follow is recomendding a product that's unsafe or illegal and says its for "wellness" and all your friends start doing it and want you to as well. what do you do?

sometimes you need more than a no so you could point out the risks and give alternatives, if that doesn't work they probably aren't friends you should be around

300

your partner is pressuring you to move faster in the relationship than you are comfortable with. what would you do? 

try to express your feelings with "I" statements to try to get them to see your side

300

reverse it: someone calls you a chicken for not stealing

-If someone's pressuring you, you turn it on them like "Why do you care so much?"

400

you're at a party and everyone is doing a specific TikTok dance that makes you feel uncomfortable or silly. how would you respond

say "no thanks" and find something else to do

400

someone tells you that "everyone" uses a certain pill to stay awake and study for the pre calc final. would you take it? and how would you respond?

explain why you’re not interested in a way that ends the conversation and that you'll make time to study or something along those lines

400

someone is being bullied in the comments of a post, and your popular friends expect you to like the mean comments and add comments. what would you do?

try to support the victim instead of bringing them down and not joining the rest of the mean ppl

400

a best friend is mad at another friend and tells you, "if you're still friends with them, we can't be friends." what would you do?

refuse the ultiamtium because they are both your best friends

400

laughing defense: Someone tries to get you to try a cigarette

use a joke or something to shut them down

500

a friend keeps "borrowing" your homework and somehow gets the same answers (yk they're copying). what could you do/say

tell them you can’t share it anymore without ending yalls friendship

500

you are at a party where things are getting out of hand. your ride has been drinking but insists they are fine to drive. what would you do?

NEVER EVER GET IN A CAR WITH SOMEONE WHO'S BEEN DRINKING. but refuse the ride and call someone else for help.

500

screenshots are being posted about this girl/guy and they're all getting sent around and making fun of her/him. you're friends with this person and everyone wants more info and is forcing you to tell. what would you do? 

you could stand up for them and refuse to contribute to the drama and keep their privacy private!

500

you are pressured to do something that goes against your morals just to "prove" your loyalty to a group. how would you respond?

stand your ground on your beliefs, do not change your standards for someone else, find things that MEET/go above your standards.

500

scenario: you're friends are being pressured by older kids to do something bad, they are considering doing it to not look "lame". How would you handle this

saying no- leaving the situation so you're not apart of it, or giving your friends the risks if they actually do it