How I feel/act
What I need
SI
Thoughts/Skills
Misc.
100

What is my baseline number?

4

100

What do I need at a 1 or 2?

Nothing!

100

How do I describe my SI when I am at a level 4?

Passive and controlled

100

What thoughts am I having at a 4?

Not really intrusive, mostly passive

100

What is the name of my social worker?

Sophia
200

What is my number when I start to get irritable?

7

200

What kind of environment helps me when I am at a level 7?

Place where I can be offered coping skills, quiet environment, and people with me

200

At what levels do I report having no SI?

Levels 1, 2, and 3

200

What is an example of an intrusive thought I experience?

I have to do this or something bad will happen.

200

What is the name of my 3 doctors?

Dr. Zou, Dr. Morales, and Dr. Zarrabi

300

What is my number when I start isolating?

5

300

What do I need from other people when I am at a level 10?

People around me, reassurance, support, and help accessing crisis or hospital care if needed.

300

What makes my SI the worst?

Intrusive OCD throughts

300

Favorite dialectical thinking skill (DBT)?

Two things can COEXIST at one time

300

Who is Stella's favorite parent?

Thomas Paul Rock

400

How do I act at a 1?

I act the way I feel

400

What does reassurance look like when I am experiencing scary intrusive thoughts?

Reminding me that intrusive thoughts are thoughts, not intentions, and that I can ask for support.

400

What words do I use to describe my SI when it becomes more intense?

Sticky, intrusive, scary, and uncontrollable

400

Favorite skill to with Dad to help thoughts?

Coregulation- reading together

400

Who is mom's favorite child?

Thomas Paul Rock

500

What do I feel AND how do I act at a 10?

I feel scared, horrible, and isolated.

I act panicky, scared, and crying. 

500

What can someone do to support me without needing to talk?

Coregulation- including sitting close by, staying in the same room, or offering a weighted blanket.

500

What is the difference between passive SI and more intense SI?

Passive SI is less aggressive and more controlled, while more intense SI can feel overwhelming, intrusive, and difficult to manage.

500

Favorite skill to do with mom?

Coregulation- breathing exercises

500

What is something that Stella hasn't aired out at family meetings?

Dad and hairdressers....