Stop
What does "Stop" stand for in Stop, Walk, and Talk?
a) Ask the person to stop what they're doing
b) Tell a trusted adult
c) Walk away from the person
a) Ask the person to stop what they're doing
Other ways of saying "stop" are: Enough, Time out, Quit, Chill, Bounce, Relax, Calm Down, Not Cool
What does "Walk" stand for in Stop, Walk, and Talk?
a) Ask the person to stop what they're doing
b) Walk away from the person
c) Tell a trusted adult
b) Walk away from the person
You can also ignore the person, turn around in your seat, or ask to be moved to a different area of the room.
What does "Talk" stand for in Stop, Walk, and Talk?
a) Tell a trusted adult
b) Ask the person to stop what they're doing
c) Walk away from the person
a) Tell a trusted adult
If you are being attacked physically, socially, or emotionally; if there is an unequal balance of power; if you are being hurt on purpose; and if it happens more than once over a short period of time. Is this bullying or teasing?
Bullying
What is a bystander?
A bystander is a person who doesn't help a victim when they are being bullied. A bystander could be the person saying, "FIGHT. FIGHT. FIGHT." or the person who ignores the situation.
What step is "stop"?
a) First step
b) Second step
c) Third step
a) First step
What step is "walk"?
a) First step
b) Second step
c) Third step
b) Second step
What step is "Talk"?
a) First step
b) Second step
c) Third step
c) Third step
Everyone is having fun. Nobody is getting hurt. Everyone is participating equally. It is light and harmless. It doesn't happen often. It can be annoying or upsetting. Is this bullying or teasing?
Teasing
What is an upstander?
Someone who recognizes when something is wrong and acts to make it right. For example, an upstander sees a classmate being picked on and goes over to the classmate to help them walk away from a bully.
Ben keeps calling Hannah "stupid" because she got an 80% on a test. What can Hannah do to show "Stop" in Stop, Walk, and Talk?
Ask Ben to stop calling her stupid.
Ben keeps calling Hannah "stupid" because she got an 80% on a test. Hannah asked Ben to stop but Ben did not stop. What can Hannah do to show "Walk" in Stop, Walk, and Talk?
Hannah can walk away, ignore the peer, or ask to move.
Ben keeps calling Hannah "stupid" because she got an 80% on a test. Hannah asked Ben to stop but Ben did not stop. Hannah then walked away from Ben but Ben followed her continuing to tell her she was stupid. What can Hannah do to show "Talk" in Stop, Walk, and Talk?
Hannah can tell a trusted adult. Ex. The teacher
What feelings may a victim feel if they are being bullied? (Must give at least two feelings)
Fear, Guilt, Anger, Shame, Sadness, Pain
Should a victim walk away from the bully alone, or should an upstander walk away with them?
An upstander should always walk away with the victim unless the victim asks to be alone.
You are calling your classmate bad names and laughing behind their back. Your classmate asks you to stop. You continue the behavior, so they ignore you. You keep calling them bad names, so finally they report it to staff.
What part of this scenario represents "stop"?
Your classmate asking you to stop.
You are calling your classmate bad names and laughing behind their back. Your classmate asks you to stop. You continue the behavior, so they ignore you. You keep calling them bad names, so finally they report it to staff.
What part of this scenario represents "walk"?
Your classmate ignoring you.
You are calling your classmate bad names and laughing behind their back. Your classmate asks you to stop. You continue the behavior, so they ignore you. You keep calling them bad names, so finally they report it to staff.
What part of this scenario represents "talk"?
Your classmate reporting your behavior to staff.
Who can you report to if someone is bullying you at school?
Teachers, Assistant Teachers, Principal, Assistant Principal, Social Worker, Counselors, and any other staff.
What can an upstander do to help a victim?
1. Tell the bully to "STOP"
2. Ask the bully, "Why are you messing with him/her?"
3. Help the victim walk away
4. Make a joke to distract the bully
5. Report the bullying behavior
Please give me an example of "Stop" in a social situation.
Answers vary
Please give me an example of "Walk" in a social situation.
Answers vary.
Please give me an example of "Talk" in a social situation.
Answers vary.
Why do bullies bully? (Must give at least one reason)
1. They may have been victims themselves.
2. They may have learned the behavior from someone at home, at school, on TV, or on a video game.
3. They may not get attention at home, so they bully in order to gain attention from classmates.
4. A bad home environment may make bullies insensitive to others' feelings.
Which takes more courage: being an upstander or being a bully?
Being an upstander takes more courage. A bully is not courageous.