Helpful, Harmful or Temporary
Pick the Right Tool
Stress Scenarios
Building the Toolkit
Name that Stress Response
100

Taking a five-minute walk before responding while angry

Helpful

100

A student feels tense before giving a presentation. What strategy could help their body calm down?

Slow breathing or a brief walk.

Getting a drink of water.

Rehearse their presentation


100

You are stressed after an argument with a friend. Name one healthy response you can do immedietly

Pause before responding, breathe, take a short walk, or talk calmly later

100

Give one toolkit example of reseting the body

Taking a walk, examples can vary

100

Billy notices a headache, tight shoulders, and a fast heartbeat before a difficult conversation. What category of stress response is this?

Physical

200

Watching a funny video or listening to music for 10 minutes after a stressful day

Temporarily helpful

200

A student has three assignments due and feels overwhelmed. What strategy could help organize the problem?

Make a to-do list

Break the tasks at hand into smaller steps

200

You have work after school and an assignment due tomorrow. Name one strategy that could help in this moment.

Prioritize, break the task down, ask for help, or plan a specific work period

200

Which category includes making a to-do list and breaking a task into steps?

Organize the problem

200

Lauren feels overwhelmed, frustrated, and anxious after a stressful day. What category of stress response is this?

Emotional

300

Breaking a large assignment into three smaller tasks

Helpful
300

Before a quiz, a student says "I am going to fail anyways". What strategy can help?

Realistic self talk.

Replace “I am going to fail” with a more realistic thought, such as “I can focus on one question at a time.”

Focus on providing their best effort instead of on failing.

Ask the teacher for clarification if they do not understand directions.

300

A student avoids checking grades because they are afraid of what they will see. Is avoidance likely helpful long-term? Explain why.

No. It may reduce stress briefly, but it can make the problem harder to solve later.

300

Which category includes sleep, food, water, and movement?

Recharge

300

Lando Calrissian keeps thinking, “I cannot do this" and cannot focus on their work. What category of stress response is this?

Cognitive 

400

Playing video games for 30 minutes after a stressful day

It depends. If it is a planned break, this can be helpful. However, this can be harmful if it causes the person to avoid their problems completely, lost sleep, or miss responsibilities.

400

A student feels overwhelmed by school, work, and family responsibilities. Name one person they could ask for support AND what they might ask for.

Trusted adult, teacher, counselor, family member, coach, etc.

Ask for help making a plan, clarification, or time to talk

400

You text a friend something important, and they read it but do not respond for hours. You start assuming they are mad at you. What is one healthy response you can make?

Put your phone down

Do something else

Follow up later with one message

400

Which category includes replacing “I cannot do this” with “I can handle one step at a time”?

Shift my thinking

400

Peter Parker starts avoiding friends, procrastinating on responsibilities, and snapping at family members. What category of stress response is this?

Behavioral

500

Create one coping choice that is temporarily harmful.

Anything that may bring short-term relief, but can create more stress or problems later.

What is procrastinating

What is excessive Scrolling

What is skipping a class or skipping work

What is staying up late watching a show or movie

500

A student is exhausted, angry, behind in schoolwork, and withdrawing from friends. Give two strategies from different toolkit categories.

Example: Break assignments into steps plus talk to someone that's trusted

500

A student is exhausted, angry, behind in schoolwork, and withdrawing from friends. Give two strategies from different toolkit categories.

examples: break assignments into steps plus talk to a trusted adult, breathing plus sleep routine

500

Alex has been stressed for weeks and feels like handling everything alone is too difficult. Which part of the toolkit should Alex use?

Connect for support

500

After an argument, Barry Allen has a stomachache, feels angry, thinks and thinks to himself “Nobody understands me,” and stops responding to messages. Identify all stress categories shown.

Physical: stomachache

Emotional: feelings of anger

Behavioral: stops responding to messages