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Communication Styles
True or False
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100

What does SAMHSA refer to as the "catalyst of the recovery process?"

Hope

100

What are the 4 main communication styles?

Passive, Aggressive, Passive-Aggressive, and Assertive

100

Radical acceptance means you approve of or agree with a painful situation

False, acceptance is not approval, endorsement, or liking a situation. It means acknowledging what is true or what happened without fighting reality

100

This distortion involves thinking in extremes, such as "If I have one slip, I’m a total failure and my recovery is completely ruined

All-or-nothing-thinking

100

According to ACT, ____________ means acknowledging what is present or has already occurred without adding denial, avoidance, or an unnecessary struggle with reality

Acceptance

200

What does HALT stand for? When can it be used?

Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired


a self-care, mindfulness, and relapse-prevention tool to help people pause and check in with their basic physical and emotional needs before reacting impulsively

200

No, don't worry about helping me clean up. I'm used to doing everything around here anyway.


If this response is not assertive, rewrite it to be in an assertive style

Passive aggressive

200

Gratitude journaling increases dopamine and serotonin and helps rewire neural pathways to look for positive experiences

True

200

Reframe this thought: Having cravings or urges makes me weak

Craving a substance is a normal part of recovery, not a sign of weakness

200

What is assertive communication?

Clearly expresses thoughts, feelings, needs, and boundaries while respecting others.Uses honesty without hostility. Allows individuals to advocate for themselves while maintaining accountability and respect

300

These types of statements (e.g., "When you do X, I feel Y...") help you communicate boundaries without sounding accusatory.

"I" Statements

300

You never listen to me. You're completely impossible to talk to


If this response is not assertive, rewrite it to be in an assertive style

Aggressive

300

Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) symptoms can cyclically appear and disappear for up to two years after acute detox

True, it can begin 1 to 3 weeks after acute detox ends and last anywhere from 6 months to 2 years as the brain gradually recovers from substance use

300

Reframe this thought: I can't picture myself being sober a year from now, so there's no point in trying

I don't have to stay sober for a year today, my only job right now is to stay sober for today (or this hour)

300

What is emotional granularity? 

The ability to identify and label your feelings with high precision, rather than more broad and vague terms

400

My choices

Conversations

Uncertainty

My effort

Relationships

The past


What can in this list can you control, what can you influence, and what might you need to accept?


control: my choices, my effort

influence: conversations, relationships

accept: the past, uncertainty

400

Sure, I can probably look into that later if nobody else wants to... it's fine, whatever you guys think is best

If this response is not assertive, rewrite it to be in an assertive style

Passive

400

Cravings usually last for a few hours at peak intensity if you don't give in to them

False, cravings usually last about 15-20 minutes 

400

Reframe this thought: Everyone must think I'm a failure

Some relationships may take time to repair, but I cannot know what everyone thinks

400

Because anger often kicks in rapidly to protect us from deeper, more vulnerable feelings, it is classified as this type of emotion. 

Also, name one emotion that may be beneath anger. 

Secondary emotion



500

What does it mean to have an external anchor of identity vs. an internal anchor of identity?

External: A reliance on outside validation to define and sustain who one is

Internal: A self-sustaining sense of identity rooted in internal criteria such as personal values and core beliefs

500

Formulate an assertive response to this scenario:

The Setup:
You are three months sober. To protect your recovery, you attend a specific peer support group every Tuesday at 6:00 PM. Your boss walks over to your desk on Tuesday afternoon and says: "Hey, I need everyone to stay late tonight until 7:00 PM to finish up this project."

The Goal:
Decline the late shift to protect your recovery meeting without over-explaining your medical history or becoming hostile.

I understand the project is important, but I have a prior personal commitment tonight at 6:00 that I cannot move. I can stay late tomorrow, or come in early tomorrow morning to help finish it

500

Structural stigma is when a person begins applying negative beliefs or labels to themselves.

False, structural stigma is policies or systems that create barriers or unequal treatment.

500

Reframe this thought: I ruined my whole life because of my addiction

I've made choices with serious consequences, and I'm working to change my behavior.

500

What is cognitive defusion and what situations can it be used in? 

Stepping back from thoughts and viewing them as simple words or images, rather than as facts or commands.