Stages of Change
Relapse Prevention
Mirror Rule of Recovery
100

The stage where you are not ready for change and don't want to hear what people have to say about your use.

The Pre-contemplation Stage of Change

100
The moment when you are fully back into your old habits, and the goal of recovery has ceased 

What is Relapse

100

The thing that we can control when dealing with people, places, and things

What are thoughts

200

The moment when you have fallen back into your old habits, realized it, corrected the trigger, and got back to your goal

What is a slip

200

The people, places, and things that can cause someone to use, and should be acknowledged and addressed, to prevent possible relapse

What is a trigger

200

The thing that we can not control when dealing with people, places, and things

What are emotions

300

It's go time! The stage where you are put the work in to change the unwanted behavior

What is the Action Stage of Change

300

The ability to acknowledge the emotion that you are experiencing, instead of numbing or ignoring it

What is naming and claiming your feelings ** remember it is okay to have feelings, and even better when you express them to someone you trust to help. We are not robots, but humans with hearts**

300

The moment where thoughts and emotions can meet, but it is not required in order to make you react.

What is Behavior 

400

The stage that you are in is trial and error to find what works best for you to change the unwanted behavior. As well as gather information and tools to set you up for a successful change

What is the Perparation stage of change

400

The moment when you are justifying/ rationalizing your idea(s) of returning to your old habits

What is Cognitive Relapse

400

The practice where you inhale for a course of 4 secs, you hold for 4 secs, you exhale for 4 secs, and you pause for 4 secs

What is Box Breathing 

500

The stage that most people stay in when it comes to the stages of change model

What is the Maintenance stage of change 

500

The moments where you start to neglect your self-care, isolate yourself, and have negative feelings towards your recovery goal, but doesn't quite have the thought of using drug of choice

What is emotional relapse

500

The five components of emotional intelligence

What are social skills, self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, and decision-making