Attachment Styles
Boundary Types
Coping Skill Categories
Window of Tolerance
DEAR MAN
100
Name an attachment style with fluctuating behaviors.

Anxious-Avoidant

100

Name a boundary style wherein you overshare information.

Porous Boundaries 


100

Type of coping skill that involves individuals regulating their emotions themselves. 


Self-Soothing

100

The stage in which you feel anxious, reactive and/or defensive. 

Fight or flight

100

What does the "D" stand for in DEAR MAN?

Describe

200

What is the attachment style that is the healthiest?

Secure Attachment 

200

The type of boundary that asserts your needs compromises with the other person. 

Healthy boundaries

200

Taking your mind off of your stressor using an outside source.

Distraction

200

The space in which you feel calm, present, and engaged in current situation

Window of tolerance
200

The space in which you State your feelings clearly to let others know how a situation affects you?

Express

300

Name an attachment style where you frequently feel you're not good enough.

Anxious Attachment

300

Name the boundary style wherein you share little to nothing with someone. Often avoiding deep connections for fear of abandonment. 

Rigid boundaries. 

300

Creating a plan to manage overwhelming stressors.

Crisis Plan

300

The space in which you feel passive, confused, and tend to shut down. 

Freeze

300

Being Direct and saying what you need clearly. 

Assert

400

Name an attachment style where you frequently place barriers in your relationship.

Avoidant Attachment

400

Taking time to regulate stress, including deep breathing and processing. 

Meditation

400

Describe flight.

fleeing the situation, avoiding confrontations, shutting down, 

400

Using good body language to project confidence.

Appear confident

500

If you're fearful of being ghosted, cheated on, or inadequate in a relationship, what would that be labeled as? 

Insecure Attachments

500
Reversal of current stressor. 

Opposite Action

500

Describe fight

Running on primary emotions, anger, escalation,

500

Explaining why it would be helpful to agree to your request.

Reinforce.