Setting Boundaries
Does people with healthy boundaries have high or low self esteem?
High self esteem because they don't let people take advantage of them
What is perspective taking?
Looking at something from someone else's point of view
What does it mean to stay n topic
Continue to talk about what the group is talking about
What does it mean to be assertive?
Standing up for yourself in a respectful way
Ducks say quack, Fish go blub, and the seal goes ow ow ow. But there's one sound, that no one knows...what does the Fox say?
Ding ding ding da ding da ding
What is an example of material boundaries?
Items such as toys, video games, clothing, and books. Things that you own.
Does everyone see a problem the same way?
No, they see it from their perspective
How do you sit when you are listening to someone?
Sitting up straight, looking at them
Does being assertive come naturally to everyone?
No
Which grows faster? Hair or toenails?
Hair
What are boundaries?
Rules we set about how people treat us
Why do we practice taking other peoples perspective?
So we can understand why they might feel a certain way
True or False
Playing on your phone while your friend tells you about their bad day is good active listening
False
True or False
It is okay to ask for what you want?
True
What do you call a pig who does Karate
Pork Chop
True of False
You are responsible for other peoples happiness
FALSE
True or False
Everyone loves roller coasters
False - some people could find them scary
Your friends are talking about their favorite movies, and you interrupt to talk about video games. Are you breaking the rules of active listening or staying on topic?
BOTH!!!!
If you just go along with what your friends want, are you being passive or assertive?
passive
How do you organize a space party?
You planet
Give an example of crossing a physical boundary
pushing, standing too close, touching any part of you
Should Teachers assign homework? What do you think your teacher thinks?
Answers will vary
True or False
A good active listener remembers what their friends say
True!
Are these traits Passive, Aggressive, or Assertive?
Listens, compromises, confident, makes good eye contact, stands up for themselves
Assertive
Kate is the best social zone teacher ever!
Answers will vary