What is the outside-in rule?
You should use utensils from the outside in
When you should start eating at a table of 2-4?
When everybody has been served
How should you pass the salt and pepper?
Pass the salt and pepper together
Where should you place the napkin if you have to leave the table during the meal?
Place your napkin on your chair
How should you hold wine glasses?
By the stem
What does this indicate?
This indicates that you’re finished eating
What should you do after the function?
Send a handwritten thank you note to the host
How do you make sure your gift of wine matches the meal?
Call the host in advance
What should you do if you have to blow your nose?
You should excuse yourself and not blow it at the table
In what style should you switch the utensils to eat from your left and right hand?
American style is when you switch to your right hand to eat
What’s wrong with this?
Holding utensils should be held continental style like this:
When should you start eating at a large gathering?
Either when everybody has been served or when the host allows you to do so
How should you butter your bread?
Rip of a piece of bread and butter that piece, do not butter the whole bread at once
When should you RSVP to a party?
Always let the host know whether or not you are going to help them with planning purposes
What should you do if the soup in your spoon is too hot?
Let the soup sit, do not blow on it
How should you use your spoon to get soup?
You should tilt the spoon away from you
When should you sit?
After receiving the signal from the host
When do you season the food?
After you taste it — don’t season the food before you taste it
How should you indicate that you’re going to the bathroom?
Say “Excuse me” or “I’ll be right back” but not that you’re going to the bathroom
Where should you place the napkin after the meal?
Left of your plate once everybody has finished eating
How should you get the last bit of soup?
You should tilt the bowl away from you
How fast should you be eating?
Pace your food to finish around the same time as the host
What should be done with spreads or dips if you have a special plate?
They should be transferred to your plate first and then to your bread for example
How should you pass around plates?
Offer things to the person on your left and pass stuff to your right
What should you do with bad food?
Remove it from your mouth with the same utensil that you put it in your mouth with and then put it at the end of your plate (preferably cover it up with other food)