Social Emotional
What is it called when you feel or understand what someone else is feeling? (walk in their shoes)
Empathy
Bullying has 3 characteristics (all starting with "O"). Name all 3. Bullying is....
One-sided
On-purpose
On-going
Rylee and Ashanti are in the same class at school. Rylee doesn’t like Ashanti, so she makes jokes to her friends about how Ashanti dresses. Ashanti can hear them laughing at her, and it makes her feel sad. Ashanti tells Rylee to stop, but Rylee just laughs and keeps making fun of her. Is this bullying or a conflict?
bullying
Face the person you are talking to
Keep your head up
Use a calm, firm voice
Use respectful words
Being assertive
What is the person called who sees or knows about bullying happening to someone else?
Bystander
Every day, Pedro plays soccer after school with other kids from his school. Recently a group of older boys has started playing, and the boys push Pedro around. They keep knocking him down. He’s afraid to tell them to stop because he thinks they won’t let him play. What can Pedro do to help stop this bullying?
Report to an adult
Can you name the 4 Problem Solving Steps? (STEP)
Say the problem
Think of solutions
Explore consequences
Pick the best solution
Name 3 ways a bystander can help stop bullying.
Report to an adult.
Be assertive and stand up.
Take the victim out of the situation.
Kelsie also plays soccer with Pedro after school. She doesn’t like seeing Pedro being bullied, but she is afraid to say anything to the older boys. What can Kelsie do to help stop the bullying?
She can support Pedro and offer to help him report the bullying.
She can tell her teacher about what she has seen the older boys doing.
She can start a new soccer game and invite Pedro to join her.
You and a partner have just finished building a rocket for a science project. You are carrying your completed rocket up to the front of the class when you trip over someone’s foot. You drop the rocket and it cracks. You turn around and see a classmate with his foot in the aisle. You are so angry! You feel like breaking his rocket. You want to punch him. Instead, you decide to calm down. What positive self- talk can you use to calm down?
“He probably didn’t stick his foot out on purpose. I can always fix my rocket.”
If a bystander does nothing when they see bullying happening, they are part of the....
problem
Terrance is a friend of Pedro’s. He doesn’t like seeing Pedro being bullied. But he is afraid if the older boys stop bullying Pedro, they might start bullying him. So he laughs when they knock Pedro down. Is Terrance part of the bullying problem?
Yes
Bella hears some of her friends talking about another friend of hers, Karin. Bella is sure that what they are saying is untrue and hurtful to Karin. Bella knows this is a problem. What are some possible solutions that are safe and respectful?
Walk away and refuse to listen
Confront the gossipers and tell them to stop Assertively state the truth
Cyber bullying is bullying with electronics. True or False. Cyber bullying is not as harmful as other types of bullying because you can't see the person who is doing it.
False
Someone created a website that says mean things about a student at your school named Angel. You and all your friends have seen the website, and everyone is talking about it. You don’t know who made the website, but some of your friends have posted insults on it. You don’t know Angel very well, but you think this is cyber bullying. What can you do to help support Angel?
Show the website to a trusted adult, like a family member or teacher.
Post positive messages about Angel on the website.