Tattling vs. Reporting
Jack notices Lilly is throwing rocks at Nick during recess. Jack goes and tells the teacher. Is this tattling or reporting?
Reporting! We want to make sure no one gets hurt.
How do we refuse bullying?
Stand up tall and say "STOP! That's bullying!"
What does being a bystander mean?
Seeing or knowing bullying is happening.
Sarah interrupts the teacher during class to tell her that Nicole stuck her tongue out at her.
Tattling! That is something we can ignore and work out on our own.
What should you do if the adult you tell about bullying doesn't do anything?
Find another adult until someone listens to you and helps you stop bullying!
What does being an upstander mean?
Standing up against bullying!
Zack is leaning back in his chair and falls over and hits his head. Leaning in the chair is against the classroom rules, so zack is afraid to tell the teacher he got hurt. Kevin sees this, and goes and tells the teacher. Is this reporting or tattling?
Reporting! Someone got hurt so it is important that we tell an adult.
How can you be an upstander?
Refuse bullying!
Tell a caring adult!
Invite the person being bullied to come play with you.
Saying kind things to each other.
Bystanders!
Everyday on the bus a 4th graders is saying mean names to a 2nd grader. You see this happening. You tell the bus driver, and your teacher. Is this tattling or reporting?
Reporting! It is important to tell an adult when someone is being bullied.
What are the 5 clues that tell us something is bullying.
1. Happens over and over.
2. On purpose.
3. Does not stop.
4. One-sided.
5. Causes harm.
The character 1 from the story was an ______.
Upstander!