Teen Dating

Healthy Relationships

100

A healthy relationship can sometimes be controlling, manipulative, or jealous. True or False

False

200

Always doing what your friends/BF/GF wants to do is considered what kind of relationship? Healthy or unhealthy?

Unhealthy.

300

It is okay for your friends to make you feel guilty for ending any relationships.

No!

400

Name one characteristic of a healthy relationship

Being respectful, safety, equality, support, individuality, fairness, acceptance, trust, good communication.

500

If the person you are dating is always telling you how to look, to wear make up or certain clothes, to look nice or they won't be seen with you, is that verbal, emotional, or mental abuse?

All of them.

Dating Rights

100

What are your dating rights? A) To set your own limits. B) To end your relationship. C) To be equal. D) All of the above.

D. All of the above

200

You have the right to be GUILT-FREE when dating. What does that mean? A) You can refuse to go out on a date without feeling guilty. B) If you're a guy, you have to act tough. If you're a girl, you have to be pretty. C) You can't go anywhere without your dating partner knowing

A. You can refuse to go out on a date without feeling guilty.

300

When can you end your relationship with someone? A) Only if you have a GOOD reason to B) Only when you don't feel safe C) For any reason at any time

C. For any reason at any time

400

Your opinion is equally as important as your partner's opinion, except when: A) Your partner is hard of hearing. B) Your partner is smarter than you. C) Your opinion is always as important as your partner's D) Your partner didn't ask you for your opinion.

C. Your opinion is always as important as your partner's.

500

You have the right to set your limits. What does that mean? A) You can say "NO" to anything (touch, showing things, saying things on phone, etc). B) You can decide to do something with one partner, and then don't do the same thing with your next partner. C) You can have privacy whenever you want away from your partner. D) All of the above

D. All of the above

Myth or Fact

100

Dating violence only happens in heterosexual couples. Myth or Fact

Myth

200

Teens who experience dating violence are 3 times more likely to become pregnant. Myth or fact

Myth. They are 4-6 times more likely to become pregnant.

300

1 in 3 young people will experience teen dating violence. Myth or fact

Fact

400

Teens who suffer dating abuse are not subject to any long-term consequences (ex. alcoholism, eating disorders, suicide ideation, violent behavior). Myth or fact

Myth. They ARE subject to these consequences

500

Alcohol and drugs cause a person to be abusive. Myth or fact

Myth. Alcohol and drugs do not CAUSE a person to be abusive.

Digital Dating Abuse

100

Despite the love and trust between boyfriend and girlfriend, name a form of security that should NEVER be shared.

Passwords

200

Describe what textual harassment is.

When a friend or dating partner constantly tests or messages you "where u at?" "who you with?" "what r u doing?"

300

What is cyberstalking? Give one example.

When individuals use social media, such as facebook or snapchat, to follow or harass an individual.

400

Angelina is talking with a guy friend on her phone, and her boyfriend, Brad, later sees her texting the friend. Brad gets mad and yells at Angelina. Whose fault is it for getting Brad mad? A) Angelina B) Brad C) Angelina's guy friend

B) Brad. He is choosing to yell and be angry. It is his choice in how he reacts to the situation.

500

Tommy and Carl are dating. Tommy told Carl he should only be texting or calling him He can't contact his friends or his parents. What is wrong with this? A) Carl should also be telling Tommy the same thing. B) Carl has the right to contact whoever he wants, whenever he wants. C) Tommy is right, Carl should listen to Tommy's wants.

Carl has the right to contact whoever he wants whenever he wants.

WILD CARD

100

Healthy relationships only happen for which group of teens? A) Athletes B) All teens C) Band kids D) Math kids

B. All teens can experience healthy relationships and deserve to experience them.

200

True or false: Unhealthy relationships only happen when one person makes the other person mad.

FALSE. Unhealthy relationships happen because one person wants to have power and control over the other person. It is never a person's fault, even if they say or do something that makes the other person angry. WE all have choices!

300

What is the correct definition of teen dating violence? A)Pattern of controlling, and abusive behaviors of one person over another within a romantic or dating relationship. B) When one person hits another person while dating or in a relationship.

A)Pattern of controlling, and abusive behaviors of one person over another... It can include verbal, emotional, physical, sexual, and financial abuse. It can happen to anyone.

400

Who was the famous music artist who physically abused his partner who was also a music artist in 2009?

Chris Brown

500

What is one technique you can use to calm yourself?

Deep breathing, take a walk, sing, dance, mindfulness meditation, exercise, count to 10, remove yourself from the situation.