Can You Say "Consent"
I Love You 3000
Abuse 101
Just a Phase
How Can I Help?
100

!!!!TRIPLE POINT VALUE!!!!!!!

What does the "F" in FRIES stand for in regard to consent?

Freely


100

What is a warm attachment, enthusiasm or devotion to a person or thing?

Love

100

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1 in __ teens will experience teen dating violence.

3

100

This phase is described as walking on eggshells, heightened irritability, and the breakdown of communication.

Tension Building

100

Experts say when talking to someone being abused share your __ with them.

Worries/Concerns

200

What is the age of consent in North Carolina?

16

200

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What is characterized as romantic love or the love you have for a significant other?

Eros

200

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Abuse is always about _______ and ______.

Power and Control

200

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 In this phase lots of gifts may be bought and the abuse is often times forgotten.

Calm

200

Establish that you can be _____.

Trusted

300

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What does the "R" in FRIES stand for in regard to consent?

Reversible

300

Which type of love is characterized as the love you would have for a friend?

Phileo

300

How many times on average does it take a person to leave an abusive relationship?

Seven to Nine Times

300

TRUE or FALSE

Studies shows that over time, the length of time between the phases of abuse shorten as the relationship continues.

True

300

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Focus on your ____, instead of_____.

Family Member/Friend 

Person doing the abusing

400

What does the "E" stand for in FRIES when referring to consent?

Enthusiastic

400

What type of love represents unconditional love based on shared humanity?

Agape

400

What are some things you might notice if a classmate/friend was in an abusive relationship?

Bruises

Change in appearance

Constantly checking their phone

Depression/Isolation/Not hanging out with friends

Drop in grades/Not attending school regularly


400

!!!DOUBLE POINT VALUE!!!!

In this phase the abuser may apologize, give excuses, or blame the victim.

Reconciliation 

400

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When leaving an abusive relationship create a ____.

Safety Plan

500

What does the "S" in FRIES refer to when talking about consent?

Specific

500

This type of love is characterized as instinctual or natural?

Storge

500

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Trying to manipulate or control the person, their feelings or behaviors is an example of what type of abuse?

Verbal/Emotional Abuse

Mental Abuse

Psychological Abuse

500

TRUE or FALSE

Most people in abusive relationships know they are in a cycle of abuse.

False

500

Give one resource to reach out to if in an abusive relationship. 

Trusted Friend/ Counselor

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