Types of Abuse
Red Flags!
Cycle of Violence
It continues...
Why does he/she stay??
100
Pushing, hitting, beaten with a fist or choking.
What is Physical Abuse
100
He or she tries to control your life, telling you whom you can and cannot see, how to dress and how to act.
What is Possessiveness/controlling
100
First stage of violence.
What is Seduction /Honeymoon phase
100
Give an example as to why it would continue because of "Love".
-They think they are in love. -They think the abuser loves them. -They think they can only be loved by the abuser.
100

Name a reason why he/she would stay with the abuser?

Fear/Love/ Hope

200
Feeling guilty about who you are.
What is Emotional Abuse
200
Tells you they love you after only 2 weeks.
What is Quick Involvement
200

Third stage of abuse

What is violence/abuse

200
Give an example as to why it would continue due to "Hope".
-Hope that they will change. - Hope that things will get better.
200
Name an physical effect that may happen to the person being abused after he/she leaves the abuser
What is lack of appetite, weight loss,
300
Tells you who you can, and cant be "friends" with online.
What is digital abuse
300
Boyfriend/girlfriend becomes angry if you talk to anyone else.
What is Jealousy
300
This stage is where the actual abuse happens.
What is Violence
300
Give an example as to why the cycle would continue because of "Fear"
What is They threatened you... -They said they will hurt you or your family - they said they will blackmail you by posting an inappropriate pic online - They will kill themselves if you break up with them
300
Name two people you should talk to if your partner is abusing you.
What is Parent, teacher, guidance counselor, principal...
400
Feeling as though you are to blame for the situation.
What is Emotional Abuse
400

Controls who you hang out with, doesn't allow you to participate in activities with others

What is isolation

400
In this stage, the problems start to come to the surface. Possibly some "red flags" are exposed.
What is Tension Building
400

What are two ways to remain safe after ending an abusive relationship?

  • Consider changing your school locker or lock


    • Consider changing your route to and from school


      • Have a "code word" and share it only with friends family and school personnel.  When you use that word, they know you are in danger and need help

400
Finish this sentence about reasons why one would stay: Belief he/she is the only one........
What is ...that can help the abuser
500
Sends you unwanted, explicit pictures, or demands them in return.
What is digital abuse
500
This may affect a person's mood and disposition, sometimes acting as a trigger for violence.
What is Alcohol/Drug Abuse
500

In this stage, gifts, promises and personality changes could occur.

What is Honeymoon/Seduction

500

What is the number 1 reason a victim stays in a relationship?

They fear for their life

500
Name an emotional effect that abuse can have on the abused.
What is ... not trusting anyone, low self esteem, sadness/depression, self blame, guilt, confusion