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Which of these following behaviors describes bullying behavior?
a. repeated threats, intimidation, or physical harm
b. harassing statements poste online about someone
c. repeated name calling put downs, and teasing
d. all of the above
d. all of the above
What is the purpose of the Win-Win approach to resolving a conflict?
a. Both people avoid dealing with the conflict altogether
b. Both people share or split the difference
c. Both people win nothing and lose nothing
d. One person wins and the other loses
c. both people win nothing and lose nothing
Some teens don't resolve conflicts peacefully because they
a. are bad people
b. want to be unhealthy
c. cannot manage their emotions in healthy ways
d. are cool, popular, and well respected
c. cannot manage their emotions in healthy ways
Demonstrating respect for yourself and others shows
a. your awareness of your impact on the world without you
b. your empathy for others
c. that you value yourself and others even if you have different values or opinions
d. all of the above
d. all of the above
Garret and Colin are working on a school project togther. Garret wants to meet before school to work on the project, but Colin wants to work on the project after school. What approach is the best way to resolve conflict?
a. Steer Clear
b. Avoid it
c. Compromise
d. Compete
b. Compromise
The characteristics of constructive criticism include
a. respect, specific suggestions for improvement, and name-calling
b. respect, specific suggestions for improvement, frustration
c. respect, specific suggestions for improvement, and focus on what the person can change
d. respect, specific suggestions for improvement, and an aggressive tone of voice
c. respect, specific suggestions for improvement, and focus on what the person can change
Charlie keeps harassing and threatening you between classes. Sometimes he knocked your books out of your hands and laughs at you. As the target of Charles' bullying behavior, you should use which healthy response?
a. Don't tell a trusted adult that you are being bullied
b. Be assertive with Charles and say . "People would respect you more if you didn't push them around."
c. Isolate yourself from others
d. Convince yourself that you're not important
b. Be assertive with Charles and say . "People would respect you more if you didn't push them around."
Ella was proud of her ability to play the violin, but that changed after she started dating Owen. Owen laughs at her playing and tells her that she isn't very good. What unhealthy qualities exist in their relationship?
a. insults, trust and support
b. insults, trust and understanding
c. insults, communication and respect
d. insults, humiliation and discouragement
d. insults, humiliation and discouragement
The Active Listener
a. makes eye contact, interrupts, and thinks of what to say next
b. makes eye contact, asks clarifying questions and has attentive posture
c. makes eye contact, asks clarifying questions and is texting someone else
d. looks away, interrupts, and thinks of what to say next
b. makes eye contact, asks clarifying questions and has attentive posture
True or False? Controlling and jealous behaviors are signs of affection and are part of a healthy dating relationship?
False
The Assertive Speaker
a. stands tall, makes eye contact, and speaks in a confident tone
b. stands tall, makes eye contact, and talks quietly
c. stands tall, makes eye contact, and uses an aggressive tone
d. slouches, makes eye contact, and talks quietly
a. stands tall, makes eye contact, and speaks in a confident tone
Which of the following statements is true? Negotiation is used in a conflict to
a. demand what you want
b. pressure others until they give up
c. cooperate and work to reach a solution that everyone agrees upon
d. ignore the viewpoints of others
c. cooperate and work to reach a solution that everyone agrees upon
True or False? It is okay to compromise your beliefs to make someone like you?
False
Which of the following is most likely to help you get what you want in life?
a. peer pressure
b. goal setting
c. advertising
d. all of the above
b. goal setting
Which of the following actions demonstrates disrespect?
a. frequently being late to appointments
b. holding the door open for someone
c. shaking someone's hand to introduce yourself
d. making eye contact during a conversation
a. frequently being late to appointments
Who should set your goals?
a. your friends
b. advertisers
c. you
d. your teacher
c. you
Name three reasons or motivations for using bullying behavior?
They are bullied by other people, they hang out with people who use bullying behavior, to make others laugh, it gives them a sense of power, no one told them to stop, they are rewarded for their bullying behavior, to fit in
What does respect mean?
Respect means to value or show value toward something or someone
True or False? Respecting ourselves builds self-esteem.
True
Which of the following statements is an example of constructive criticism?
a. You call this project done? This is awful
b. I appreciate all of your hard work. I think we should add a graph to explain our results.
c. You messed up our project. We are going to get terrible grade.
b. I appreciate all of your hard work. I think we should add a graph to explain our results.
Teen dating violence is
a. only in movies
b. a way of showing affection
c. only verbal putdowns
d. any abuse used to manipulate, hurt, control, frighten, or intimidate a dating partner
d. any abuse used to manipulate, hurt, control, frighten, or intimidate a dating partner
Joe wanted Rob to steal candy from the Quick Mart up the street, Rob said, "Why are you pressuring me? I said no." What is the name of the peer-pressure refusal strategy Rob used?
a. Make an Excuse
b. Ignore
c. Broken Record
d. Reverse the Pressure
d. Reverse the Pressure
What does empathy make you feel?
a. suspicious of peer pressure
b. more connected with the feelings of others
c. assertive
d. aggressive
b. more connected with the feelings of others
You notice that Kyla keeps threatening Amy at the school bus. As the witness to Kyla's bullying behavior which of the following is a healthy response for you to use?
a. put Kyla down by telling her that everyone hates her
b. encourage Kyla to work out her aggression in a healthy way like joining a sports team
c. pretend that you didn't see the situation and walk away
d. tell Amy that she's a wimp, and that she should try to avoid Kyla as much as possible
b. encourage Kyla to work out her aggression in a healthy way like joining a sports team
Which of the following is not part of setting and reaching a goal?
a. Name a reachable goal
b. Set a date for reaching your goal
c. Ask someone else what your goal should be
d. Say, "I can"
c. Ask someone else what your goal should be