Green Dot
What is a red dot?
A small decision some makes to use their words or actions to hurt someone else
What is the name of a dating app?
Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, POF, OKCupid, Happn, etc.
What is consent?
An affirmative, informed, voluntary, and active permission to engage in a mutually-agreed upon act or contact
What is a sign of a healthy relationship?
Comfortable pace, honesty, respect, kindness, healthy conflict, trust, independence, equality, taking responsibility, fun
What is self care?
The practice of taking action to preserve or improve one's own health
What is a green dot?
An action someone can take to stop a red dot from happening
What is a way you can protect yourself online?
Be careful with the personal information that you share, be mindful of the pictures you utilize on your profile, block and report if/when you need to
What is a boundary?
An invisible line that defines what behaviors are acceptable for an individual, and they can be emotional, physical, or digital
What is a sign of an unhealthy relationship?
Intensity, manipulation, sabotage, guilting, deflecting responsibility, possessiveness, isolation, belittling, volatility, betrayal
What is a self care activity that you can do?
Listening to music, reading, playing video games, napping, exercising, spending time with loved ones
What are the three forms of interpersonal violence addressed in Green Dot?
Sexual assault/violence, dating/relationship violence, and stalking
What is a red flag to look for when online dating?
They ask for money, vague information/answers on their profile, disappears suddenly from the site then reappears under a different name, overly complimentary and romantic too early in your communication
What does consent look like?
Asking for permission before and during certain activities; confirmation that there is reciprocal interest; letting them know you can stop at anytime
True/False: Healthy communication includes being judgmental, closed minded, daydreaming while another person is talking, etc.
False
Who is a confidential resource on campus?
BAVO, HCC, Campus Ministry
What are the 3 Ds?
Direct, Delegate, Distract
What is a safety precaution you can take prior to meeting someone in person?
Video chat before you meet, meet in a public place, tell a friend where you’re going, utilize your own transportation
What doesn’t consent look like?
Making assumptions about a person's willingness to participate in an activity based on how they're dressed, how many drinks they have had, etc., the absence of or refusing to acknowledge "no"; using coercion or manipulation to get a "yes"
This is the term for when your beliefs and opinions are valued, and your boundaries are accepted
Respect
Who is a non-confidential resource on campus?
Any staff member and faculty
What is the difference between a reactive green dot and a proactive green dot?
A reactive green dot is an action you take in response to a potential red dot and a proactive green dot is an action you can take to stop red dots before they even start
What can you do if you’re feeling uncomfortable on a date?
Don’t be afraid to leave or ask for help from staff at if you need assistance with leaving
True/False: Consent can be withdrawn at any time and has an expiration date
True
This is the term for when someone keeps you away from family, friends, or other people
Isolation
True/False: Counseling is only for those with a serious mental health condition.
False