Elder Andersen's Insights
Understanding Forgiveness
Repentance and Change
Forgiving Others
Applying Forgiveness in our Lives
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Elder Andersen said forgiveness is not earned — it is a ______.  

Gift (a divine gift)

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Is forgiveness something you do once, or a way of life?

A way of life — a permanent attitude, not just one act.

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These "Three Beloved Friends" are who we meet on the journey of forgiveness.   

Broken heart, a contrite spirit, and godly sorrow 

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Give one blessing that comes to you when you forgive someone who hurt you deeply.

Inner peace; lighter heart; freedom from the past; being able to receive God’s forgiveness more fully.

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A bishop or branch president is called to assist in the repentance process for these types of sins.

Serious sins such as sexual transgressions, criminal activity, etc.  

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He said one of the greatest gifts we can offer another person is ______.

Forgiveness

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This is the divine quality Christ shows when offering forgiveness to the repentant.

Mercy

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Yes or No: Does repentance only involve big, serious sins?

No — It includes small things too: unkind words, holding grudges, selfish choices.

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As we forgive others, we become more like _______.


Jesus Christ / our Savior

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Give one small thing you can do TODAY to practice forgiveness.

Let go of an unkind thought; say a kind word to someone who hurt you; pray for them instead of being angry.

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Elder Andersen stresses that forgiveness helps us build this eternal attribute. 

Spiritual strength

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The ability to be forgiven and to forgive ourselves comes through this process.  

Repentance

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The six letter word describes a sincere change of heart and mind.

Repent

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True or False: You can still feel sad or hurt and choose to forgive at the same time.

True — You don’t have to feel okay first; you decide to forgive even while it still hurts.

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Forgiveness helps us to overcome these feelings, which often accompany transgressions. 

Feelings of guilt, despair, hopelessness, worthlessness, uncleanliness, etc.  

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Elder Andersen emphasizes that only this person can offer divine forgiveness.

Jesus Christ

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Forgiveness of our sins does not come from the church, but from _______________.

Our Savior Jesus Christ

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__________and _________sin are vital steps of repentance.

Confessing & Forsaking


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Forgiving someone doesn't necessarily mean forgetting but letting go of these feelings.  

Anger and Resentment

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Why is forgiving yourself sometimes the hardest part?

We remember our own mistakes clearly; but God says when He forgives, He forgets — we must accept His gift and move forward.

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The principles of Repentance and Forgiveness are only possible because of this.  

The Savior's Atonement

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True or False: If someone hurts you deeply, you have the right to refuse to forgive them.

False — The Savior’s command is to forgive everyone, no matter how deep the hurt  

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Yes or No: Once you repent, you will never make a mistake again. 

False — Repentance is a lifelong process; we keep trying and keep turning back to God.

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This phrase, spoken by Jesus on the cross, exemplifies perfect forgiveness.  

"Father, forgive them." 

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President Nelson, in his first year as President of the church, said this, "In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually . . . " without this.  

The "guiding, directing, comforting and constant influence of the Holy Ghost."