Why people share
Why is it bad?
Coping
Studies
Chatter / Bonus / Quotes
100

 fight, flight OR _______

Friend.

100

Talking about a distressing experience can make the victim__

Relive the event.

100

Coping is:

How to manage inner chatter.

100

What schools were metioned in the first study?

Virginia Tech and Northern Illinois University.

100

Chatter is:

Inner monologue/ self-talk.

200

People feel safer when hurting with___

Other people.

200

friends of the victims who listen to them vent often prioritize their ____ over ______

Emotions over logical rehabilitation.

200

Cognative support is:

Logical and problem sloving support.

200

The participents in the second study were:

People who lived during 9/11.

200

Chatter shapes how we:

Think, feel, and behave.

300

People are looking for ways to____

Validate and satisfy their emotions after a disaster.

300

Associationism is the theory that:

if you don’t fix things, there is no limit to the intrusive thoughts.

300

We need comfort from people who help us:

Distance, Normalize, change the way we think.

300

The question they wanted answered in the 9/11 study was:

 “Does sharing emotions impact how we feel over time?"

300

We get _______ from physical touch, not long-term ______

Comfort & Solution

400

Caretakers sprang to action and helped us when___

We cried as babies.

400

Sharing your emotions is only helpful when done correctly with someone who:

Prioritizes logical rehabilitation.

400

Before acting on emotions, you should:

Allow the emotions to cool down.

400

Those who shared their feelings after the attack had:

Higher levels of general distress and worst physical health.

400

Who said : “People need to purge themselves of their emotions after watching a tragic event, a process called catharsis”.

Aristotle

500

Caretakers sprang to action and helped us when___

We cried as babies.

500

Co-rumination means to_____

Relive the event.

500

Before acting on emotions, you should:

Allow the emotions to cool down.

500

Both studies show that:

Sharing emotions is unhelpful and possibly damaging.

500

Who said : “You must walk a tightrope to take upset people from addressing their emotional needs to the more practical cognitive ones.”

Ethan Kross