Healthy Coping Skills
Unhealthy Coping Skills
How to deal with Emotions
True/False
Stress
Impulse Control
100

The feeling of displeasure, being very irritated or annoyed.

What is "Anger?"

100

What is a coping skill (define it)

Methods that people use to handle/manage stressful situations. 

100

In through your nose, out through your mouth.

What is "deep breathing" 
100

True or False: 

Talking to others about problems in our lives is a healthy coping skill.

TRUE!

Talking to others allows us to share our emotions and problems so that we do not have to go through them alone.

100

A feeling of emotional or physical tension, coming from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous. 


What is "stress"?

100

What is impulse control?

Impulse control is the ability to think about something before doing or saying it.

200

A feeling you have when you fear something bad will happen to you or someone else.

What is "scared" or "afraid?"

200

Name two unhealthy coping skills.

- Sleeping too Much

- Eating too Much

- Avoiding the Problem

-Hurting others or destroying property

200

Being away from the group to calm your body, your thoughts, and try to change your feelings.

What is taking space?


200

True or False:

Every coping skill is healthy.

FALSE!

Some ways that we learn to cope are not healthy for us! (ex: fighting, eating too much, running from problems, etc.)

200

True or False: Self-care looks different for everyone. 



Self-care can look different for everyone, and that's okay. The most important thing about self-care is that it feels good to you.

200

Why is impulse control important?

It is important so that we do not make decisions without first thinking about them.  For example, when taking a test, we need to think about the question before we choose an answer.

300

Feeling ashamed or embarrassed because of your actions.

What is "guilty?"

300

Suzie gets into a fight with her mom. She decides to leave the situation and go for a walk. Is this a healthy coping skill?

Yes! 

Going on a walk and leaving the situation is a great way to reduce stress and calm down. 

300

Using words to describe your thoughts and feelings to someone you trust.

Exercise helps you stay healthy physically and mentally.  It is also a great way to get out feelings of frustration or anger.

300

True or False:

Coping skills are used to avoid problems in our lives.

FALSE!

Coping skills help us work through our problems and emotions. You do not want to avoid these! Avoiding is considered an unhealthy coping skill.

300

Name 3 symptoms or signs of stress


- Dizziness

- Headaches (Headaches)

- Exhaustion (Exhaustion)

- Racing heart

- Upset stomach

- Changes in appetite

300

What is one way to control your impulses?

take 3 deep breaths before answering or doing something



400

A feeling you have when you are really looking forward to something.

What is "excited?"

400

John is feeling overwhelmed and upset after school.  His parent asks him to do the dishes and, without thinking, John gets upset.  He begins yelling at his mom and throwing the dishes onto the ground.  Is this a good coping skill?

No!

Yelling at others and destroying property are both unhealthy coping skills. His reaction hurts his moms feelings and can also make her upset.  If John is feeling overwhelmed he can ask mom for help or for a break.

400

Writing down thoughts and feelings about what you experience.

What is journaling?

400

True or False:

Coping skills help you focus on the important things in your life.

TRUE!

When we can cope with problems in our lives, it is easier to focus on everything else that is important to us!

400

Name 3 examples of physical self-care:

- Try a new workout

- Eat nourishing foods

- Get adequate sleep

- Play your favorite sport 

- Dance

- Drink more water

400

Scenario

Ben is at school when an older student begins to tease him.  The older student begins to call him names like "baby ben" and "tiny."  Ben becomes upset and begins hitting the older student.  How could Ben have reacted differently? 

It is ok that Ben was upset that he was being called names.  However, hitting others is never ok. 

Instead, Ben should have used his coping skills, like taking deep breaths, to stop and think before reacting.  After he felt calm, Ben could tell the teacher or ask a trusted adult for help.

500

A feeling you may have when you are constantly thinking about something and are unsure of what the outcome will be.

What is "worried?"

500

How can unhealthy coping skills negatively affect our lives?

Unhealthy coping skills make it harder for us to feel better and cope with the problem.  Often, it creates more problems and harms relationships.

500

This is the process of exchanging ideas, thoughts, opinions, knowledge, and data so that the message is received and understood with clarity and purpose.

What is effective communication

500

True or False:

Coping skills are not important to your well-being.

FALSE! 

Coping skills create a sense of calmness, confidence, and inner-peace. They are important for your overall health.

500

Name 3 common stressors for people your age.

- Lack of sleep

- Dehydration

- Too much screen time / social media (Too much time in front of the screen / social networks)

- Emotional distress

- School demands

- Peer conflicts

500

How does identifying your emotion help with impulse control?

If you are able to stop and think of how you are feeling before reacting, you will be better able to problem solve or make better decisions.