Vocab
Mutual Interests
Things that you have in common with someone else
What is one sign that someone would be interested in dating?
They start conversations with us, they send messages to us first, they smile at us, they say nice things about us, they invite us to events, etc.
What are two things that someone should do before leaving for a date.
Have good hygiene, make sure your vehicle/space is presentable, dress appropriately for the setting, let family/friends know where you're going, etc.
Why is it usually a good idea to meet someone you don't know well in a public place for the first few dates?
There are lots of people around, which increases safety.
Being polite and respectful.
Do or Don't.
Do.
"Green Flags, "Red Flags"
Good or bad signs that someone is interested/would be a good person to date, etc.
What is one sign that someone would be uninterested in dating?
Why would it be a bad idea to look at your phone all the time while on a date?
It might give the other person the impression you're not interested or that you're talking to someone else.
What would be an example of a good and safe first date. What would be a bad example?
Good: movies, mall, sporting event. Bad: Driving two hours away to a place you've never been, going on a hike to a place you've never been, going over to their house alone
Move on if they're not interested.
Do or Don't?
Do.
"Ghosting"
To cut off contact with no explanation. (Don't do this.)
Is there a definite way to know if someone is interested in dating or not?
Not really.
Should people talk about their exes while on a date?
Probably not, but it depends.
Why would it be a good idea to check in with trusted family or friends before/after the date?
It's much safer when people know what you're doing and when. If anything happens, people know what you're doing and how to find you, etc.
Asking permission for physical contact?
Do or Don't?
Do.
DM
Direct Message, as in "hop in their DMs"
How could a mutual friend help you figure out if someone is interested or not?
They can indirectly and/or secretly figure out if the other person is interested. This can save you some trouble and/or embarrassment, as long as the mutual friend is trustworthy and a good friend.
What would be an example of an appropriate compliment to give on a date? What would be an example of an inappropriate compliment to give?
Answers vary. Rule of thumb: keep physical compliments from the neck up. Other compliments (e.g., intelligence, humor, skill) are less risky and generally appropriate.
If you have a bad feeling about someone, what should you do?
Trust your instincts. Trust your gut and get help from a trusted friend or adult. Do not let yourself be pressured into doing anything or going anywhere that you do not want to do.
Talking about your dating/relationship history
Do or Don't?
Don't.
LDR
Long-Distance Relationship
How do we show interest in someone?
Talking to them, trading information, asking questions, trying to find common interests, being kind, giving compliments, making eye contact, etc.
What's something you should do after a date?
Follow-up in an appropriate amount of time, set up a new date, etc.
Who are two people in your life that you could go to if you have questions/worries/concerns about dating safety?
Answers vary - (friends/family/trusted adults at school, etc.)
Assuming you're a couple.
Do or Don't.
Don't.