Thoughts, Feelings, Actions
Helpful and Unhelpful Thoughts
Feelings affect actions
Thoughts affect Feelings
Thoughts, Feelings, Actions
100

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

Lonely

Feeling

100

Is this thought helpful or unhelpful?

"I did my best"

Helpful

100

What action happens if you felt sad?

Crying, be alone

100
How would you feel if you thought "I am really good at math!"

Happy, Proud, Accomplished

100

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

Singing

Action

200

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

She's mad at me

Thought

200

Is this thought helpful or unhelpful?

"One person made fun of me, so that means everyone hates me"

Unhelpful

200

What action would you do if you felt angry?

Hitting, yelling, making threats

200

How would you feel if you thought "my stupid brother messed up everything"?

Angry, annoyed, mad

200

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

Eating Ice Cream

Action

300

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

Taking a walk

Action

300

Is this thought helpful or unhelpful?

"I have really pretty hair"

Helpful

300

What action would you do if you felt happy?

Smiling, laughing

300

How would you feel if you thought "I can't believe I get to go to Disneyland!"?

Excited, lucky

300

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

It's my fault

Thought

400

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

I'll be ok

Thought

400

Is this thought helpful or unhelpful?

"My friend hates me"

Unhelpful

400

What action would you do if you felt loved?

Give hugs, say compliments, give gifts

400

How would you feel if you thought "nobody loves me or wants to be my friend"?

Lonely, unloved, sad

400

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

Scared

Feeling

500

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

Talking to a friend

Action

500

Is this thought helpful or unhelpful?

"I can learn from my mistakes"

Helpful

500

What action would you do if you felt guilty?

Hide, tell lies, confess the truth

500

How would you feel if you thought "I'll do better next time"

Hopeful, determined

500

Is this a thought, feeling or action?

Safe

Feeling