The "F" Words
Stages of Change
Famous People in Recovery
Fancy a riddle?
Defense Mechanisms
100

This emotion often arises in early recovery, sometimes triggered by losing a familiar but harmful routine.

What is fear?

100

This first stage involves not yet seeing a need to change.

What is contemplation?

100

This actor, known for Iron Man, overcame legal troubles and multiple relapses to become one of Hollywood’s top-paid stars.

Who is Robert Downey Jr.?


100

What has keys but can’t open locks?

What is a piano?

100

This defense mechanism involves blaming others for your problems.

What is projection?

200

This painful emotion often hides beneath anger and can sabotage your recovery if not addressed.

What is Shame. 

200

This stage includes preparing mentally and logistically to change.

What is preparation?

200

This soulful British singer of “Rehab” battled addiction publicly but tragically passed at 27.

Who is Amy Winehouse?

200

What has to be broken before you can use it?

What is an egg?

200

Ignoring or refusing to acknowledge reality is called this.

What is denial?

300

This feeling is often masked by anger or irritability, especially when we try to suppress it.

What is Sadness

300

This stage includes preparing mentally and logistically to change.

What is preparation? 

300

This comedian and former SNL writer relapsed in 2020 but openly shared his experience, including his time in rehab and starting over.

Who is John Mulaney?

300

What begins with T, ends with T, and has T in it?

What is a teapot?

300

Making excuses for harmful behaviors is known as this.

What is rationalization?

400

Fear of this can stop people from opening up in meetings or asking for help

What is fear of rejection. 

400

In this stage, someone actively modifies their behavior.

What is action?

400

This pop star of “Skyscraper” has been public about their struggles with addiction, eating disorders, and multiple relapses.

Who is Demi Lovato?

400

What goes up but never comes down?

What is your age?

400

This defense mechanism involves redirecting anger toward a safer target.


What is displacement?

500

This frustrating feeling happens when someone expects quick progress but recovery takes longer than anticipated.

What is feeling impatient. 

500

This final stage involves maintaining change and avoiding relapse.

What is maintenance?

500

This Friends actor wrote a memoir, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing, detailing his decades-long battle with addiction.

Who is Matthew Perry?

500

I’m tall when I’m young, and I’m short when I’m old. What am I?

What is a candle?

500

Reverting to childish behaviors under stress is this.


What is regression?