Peacemaking (1,10)
This is the first question asked of the "Restorative Questions" *hint, PEAK uses these questions, especially to process the DR room
What happened?
Someone who you can talk to and know that they will listen and support you is someone you can _____
Trust
When harm is done, there are impacts for many people. The people who had harm done to them are called _____ *hint, it starts with a v. The ____ of a crime.
Actions are often connected to our ______. (Hint- it is important to learn how to process/manage our _____)
Emotions/Feelings
When you practice being aware of your surroundings and just noticing what is happening, you are being _____
mindful
Tariq Khamisa Foundation (**extra points for explaining who this is in the TKF story)
What is a positive quality you should look for in a trustworthy adult?
Answers may vary. Will accept supportive, trustworthy, reliable, healthy boundaries, encouraging, etc.
When harm is done, many people are impacted. The person who caused the harm is called the ____ (*hint, it starts with an o)
offender
Name one "negative" emotion (one that takes up a lot of energy and can make it hard to be okay with yourself or others)
What is one thing you can do to help yourself calm down? (Think of a coping skill that works for you)
"Repair, Fix, Heal" is the definition for the TKF Restorative process. "Repair" matches with relationships, "fix" matches with situation, what does "heal" match with?
The person who has been harmed (or "yourself")
This is a type of relationship with a peer; someone who accepts you for who you are and genuinely cares for you is a good ______
friend
There are many categories of harm (think TYPES)- name one type of harm.
Possible categories: written, verbal, physical, digital, cause emotional hurt, directed outward, directed inward, leave permanent scars, etc.)
Name one "positive" emotion (these feelings put us in a good place with others and give you energy and confidence).
Answers may vary: loved, happy, respected, comfortable, etc.
Confidence or self-confidence
What is one quality of a "peacemaker"?
Answers may vary. Will accept compassionate, cooperative, understanding, calm, kind, gentle, patient, or forgiving.
After harm has been done, people need time to ___ and go through a process to feel okay. This word means to become healthy, whole, or balanced after something impactful has happened.
Heal
This word means to acknowledge your mistakes and hold yourself responsible for your actions and behaviors. Hold yourself ______
Accountable
These are the results or effects that come from actions and situations. The impact (could be good or bad). For example, actions have _________. (starts with a C)
Consequences
Answers will vary.
After you _____ the harm, you begin to mend what was broken in relationships.
Repair.
This word means to let go of hurt, pain, anger, resentment, guilt, or other negative feelings.
Forgive
What is it called when you do whatever you can to try to get out of trouble? You make up _____ (starts with an e)
excuses
The _____ Effect is when an action also affects other areas and beyond. *Hint, think a stone being thrown in the water and creating _____ (s)
Ripple
What is one way you can see evidence of healing and forgiveness in the TKF story?
Answers may vary: forgiveness within self (Tony) or of others towards him (Tariq's family)