High-Quality Adult-Child Interaction
Nurturing and Supportive Environment
Direct teaching of social emotional skills
Responding to challenging behavior
Best Practices
100

Observers look for teachers to provide four positive comments for every one of these types of adult directions or corrections.

  • What is a negative or directive comment? (The 4:1 positive-to-negative ratio).

100

A teacher asks a child to leave circle time because they won't sit still. This common practice actually violates this core Pyramid philosophy.

What is inclusion (or exclusionary discipline/exclusion)?

  • Wiggling is normal development. Instead of removing the child, we must modify the environment by offering a fidget tool, a visual boundary, or a wiggly seat option.

100

Observers look for teachers to use books, puppets, or feeling faces to directly teach children how to identify these in themselves and others.

What are emotions or feelings?

100

Observers track this systemic response, where teachers look past the behavior itself to figure out what the child is trying to communicate.

What is determining the function of the behavior?

100

When giving directions, an observer checks that a teacher avoids vague asks like "be good" and instead delivers instructions that meet these three criteria: stated positively, tells the child exactly what to do, and consists of fewer than five words.

What are clear, concise, and positive directions?

200
  •  If a child wanders or stands disengaged at a center for more than a minute, observers check to see if you use this strategy to help them choose an activity.

  • What is offering choices or scaffolding their entry into play?

200
  • This is the ideal time to teach a child a replacement social skill or emotional regulation tool.

What is when the child is calm and regulated?

You cannot teach a drowning person to swim. Never try to teach a new skill during a meltdown; wait until the child is fully calm and receptive.

200

To score high on peer interactions, teachers must actively prompt children to do this with their friends during play, rather than playing for them.

What is share, take turns, or help a peer?

200

This specific visual strategy is observed when a teacher gives a child a concrete timeline for when a highly preferred activity will follow a non-preferred task.

What is a First-Then board (or visual schedule)?

200

Following a behavior incident, teachers immediately track environmental triggers by documenting these three components.

What are Antecedents, Behaviors, and Consequences (ABC data)? 

Purpose:


300

This action is performed by every adult at some point during the observation period.

What is providing instruction?

300

Both TPOT and TIPTOS look for teachers to explicitly teach children how to use these specific classroom interest areas before letting them play independently.

  • What are centers or play zones?

300

When a child gets angry, observers check if the teacher guides them to a designated calm space to practice this physiological strategy.

  • What is taking deep breaths? (e.g., "Smell the flower, blow out the candle").

300

An observer watches to ensure a teacher avoids this counterproductive "Red Flag" practice, which mistakenly reinforces escape-motivated behavior by removing a disruptive child from an activity.

  • What is accidentally reinforcing the function of the behavior (or removing the child from the task)?
  • Why it adds depth: It requires teachers to understand behavioral functions rather than using generic time-outs that make the behavior worse.
300
  • When a child struggles to join an ongoing group activity, an observer looks for the teacher to avoid telling the group "let him play" or telling the child "just ask nicely"; instead, the teacher must explicitly coach the child to use this multi-step behavioral sequence: walk over, watch what peers are doing, copy their play actions, and then offer a relevant play idea or compliment. 

  • What is teaching peer-entry strategies (or scaffolding social inclusion)?
  • Why it adds depth: It emphasizes that social integration must be systematically taught. Instead of solving the social barrier for the children, the educator takes the actionable step of breaking down complex, unwritten social rules into concrete steps the child can execute independently.



400

This specific practice is marked as a "Red Flag" if a teacher leaves an infant crying for more than three minutes without doing this.

  • What is offering comfort or responding to their distress?

400

Reviewing expectations with children happens during these two types of group settings.


    • What are large or small groups?



400
  • Instead of saying "Good job," observers look for you to use this exact 2-part verbal strategy that names the action and its positive impact.

What is descriptive feedback/positive reinforcement? (e.g., "Thank you for pushing in your chair, it keeps our walking path safe").


400

To avoid a power struggle during non-compliance, a teacher offers this to give the child autonomy while still meeting the goal.

What is a controlled choice (or choice between two acceptable options)?

400

Rather than isolating emotion lessons to circle time, an observer looks for teachers to take this actionable step during naturally occurring routines: pointing out characters in books, peers, or themselves, and explicitly connecting a physical cue to an internal state.

  • What is labeling feelings in context (or capitalizing on teachable moments)?
  • Depth Check: It shows deep implementation. The teacher dynamically embeds emotional literacy training into the natural fabric of the day using real-life examples rather than relying solely on flashcards.



500

Observers check if teachers actively teach this 4-step process using visuals when children argue over toys or space.

What is the solution-kit/problem-solving process?

understanding the problem, devising a plan, carrying out the plan, and looking back to check the results

500

Observers expect to see you carrying or wearing these portable tools to help redirect children who struggle to follow verbal directions.

  • What are visual schedule cards or mini rule cards?

500

When a child throws a toy in frustration, observers look for you to immediately do this before addressing the rule violation.

  • What is labeling or validating their emotion? (e.g., "I see you are feeling frustrated").

500

During a high-stress peer conflict (e.g., fighting over a toy), an observer looks for the teacher to withhold the final solution and instead physically hand the children a visual tool, actively prompting them to choose a compromise independently.

  • What is facilitating the Solution Kit (or guiding the problem-solving steps)?
  • Why it adds depth: It demands a high level of teacher restraint. Instead of playing the referee and solving the problem for them, the teacher takes the actionable step of scaffolding the children's independent use of social-emotional tools in real time.



500

When a child hesitates to comply with a routine, an observer watches to see if the teacher uses this specific scaffolding strategy: first pointing to a visual schedule, then modeling the action themselves, and finally providing minimal physical guidance only if needed.

What is the least-to-most prompting hierarchy?