What does T.R.U.S.T stands for?
Trust, Respect, Understanding, Safety, Transparency
What does a healthy relationship include?
What does FRIES stand for?
Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific
your partner forces you to hangout and you can’t leave for class
Academic abuse
According to a survey by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), a startling statistic reveals that ----- of women and ----- of men have experienced some form of sexual coercion in their lifetime.
50% women
33% men
What are the 3D's? Give examples for each one.
Direct, Distract, Delegate
Name two boundaries we discussed on the second day.
- Emotional/Privacy Boundaries
- Physical boundaries
- Time boundaries
- Material boundaries
- Intellectual boundaries
What are the three most important sexual boundaries in a healthy relationship?
Consent, open communication, mutual agreement
A co-worker keeps constantly asking you for sexual advances. Even after you make it clear you were not interested.
Harassment (intimidating and hostile environment)
The World Health Organization, a staggering ----- of sexual assaults involve a perpetrator who was known to the victim.
77%
Define Consent.
An affirmative consent law "Affirmative consent" means affirmative, conscious, and voluntary agreement to engage in sexual activity. … Lack of protest or resistance does not mean consent, nor does silence mean consent. The UC System reminds us that consent needs to be ongoing, unambiguous and is revocable.
What are the three principles of effective healthy communication?
Assertiveness: Expressing your emotions and needs honestly and with sensitivity.
Inquiry: Ask kind and thoughtful questions to learn more about what the other person is feeling, thinking, and needing.
Empathy: Comprehending the emotions, thoughts, and requirements of the other individual.
What are the three warnings when it comes to sexual boundaries in an unhealthy relationship?
Pressure, ignoring, Violating consent
Your friend OR a partner keeps making rude comments on your posts on Instagram, even though you asked them to stop by they keep going, which makes you feel violated.
Digital Abuse
The cycle of abuse could occur ------------ times before the victim decides to leave the abuser.
seven to twelve
Who can you call for services if the CARE campus advocate is out of the office/after hours?
Valley Crisis Center
What are the four steps in the cycle of abuse?
Tensions build
Incident
Reconciliation
calm
What are the tips in order to successfully set boundaries?
self awarness, assertive communication, willingness to negotiate
A partner always calls you names when they are frustrated
Dating/Domestic violence
Every ----- , an American is sexually assaulted
68 Seconds
Name three things CARE campus advocate can help a survivor with.
Name four things that can be on the Power and Control wheel.
Using coercion and threats
Using economic abuse
Using privilege
Using children
Minimizing, denying, and blaming
Using isolation
Using emotional abuse
What is the definition of sexual boundaries, and why are they important in relationships?
A man is watching a woman on the beach through binoculars and decides he must have her. Five years later, the same woman goes on a vacation with her best friend and boyfriend, when they go out, someone orders her favorite champagne to her table and we later find out that it is the man whom she never met. Later, while walking to the bathroom, the man stops her, gets uncomfortably close to her and says, “Are you lost, baby girl?”. He later drugs her, kidnaps her, and proclaims he can make her fall in love with him and if she does not, he will let her go. He says he won’t touch her without her permission, as he is touching her without her permission. He even threatens her family and breaks up with her boyfriend on her behalf. While still kidnapped, she suffers a traumatic accident, and he saves her. This incident leads her to believe she is in love with him.
Doesn't respect personal space, touches her with no permission, threatens her family, breaks her up with her boyfriend, Drug her, kidnaps, stalking
This scenario is 365 days
What is the percentage of college students who always obtained clear consent before engaging in sexual activities?
37%