CARE 101
CARE 110
CARE 120
Violence Recognize
Statistics
100

What does T.R.U.S.T stands for?

Trust, Respect, Understanding, Safety, Transparency

100

What does a healthy relationship include?

  • Integrity (Honesty)
  • Mutual Respect 
  • Trust
  • Individuality 
  • Open Communication
  • Active listening
  • Compassion
  • Equality
100

What does FRIES stand for?

Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific

100

your partner forces you to hangout and you can’t leave for class

Academic abuse

100

According to a survey by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), a startling statistic reveals that ----- of women and ----- of men have experienced some form of sexual coercion in their lifetime.

50% women

33% men

200

What are the 3D's? Give examples for each one.

Direct, Distract, Delegate

200

Name two boundaries we discussed on the second day.

- Emotional/Privacy Boundaries

- Physical boundaries

- Time boundaries

- Material boundaries

- Intellectual boundaries

200

What are the three most important sexual boundaries in a healthy relationship?

Consent, open communication, mutual agreement

200

A co-worker keeps constantly asking you for sexual advances. Even after you make it clear you were not interested.

Harassment (intimidating and hostile environment)

200

The World Health Organization, a staggering ----- of sexual assaults involve a perpetrator who was known to the victim.

77%

300

Define Consent.

An affirmative consent law "Affirmative consent" means affirmative, conscious, and voluntary agreement to engage in sexual activity. … Lack of protest or resistance does not mean consent, nor does silence mean consent. The UC System reminds us that consent needs to be ongoing, unambiguous and is revocable.

300

What are the three principles of effective healthy communication?

Assertiveness: Expressing your emotions and needs honestly and with sensitivity. 

Inquiry: Ask kind and thoughtful questions to learn more about what the other person is feeling, thinking, and needing. 

Empathy: Comprehending the emotions, thoughts, and requirements of the other individual. 

300

What are the three warnings when it comes to sexual boundaries in an unhealthy relationship?

Pressure, ignoring, Violating consent 

300

Your friend OR a partner keeps making rude comments on your posts on Instagram, even though you asked them to stop by they keep going, which makes you feel violated.

Digital Abuse

300

The cycle of abuse could occur ------------ times before the victim decides to leave the abuser.

seven to twelve

400

Who can you call for services if the CARE campus advocate is out of the office/after hours?

Valley Crisis Center

400

What are the four steps in the cycle of abuse?

Tensions build

Incident

Reconciliation

calm

400

What are the tips in order to successfully set boundaries?

self awarness, assertive communication, willingness to negotiate 

400

A partner always calls you names when they are frustrated

Dating/Domestic violence

400

Every ----- , an American is sexually assaulted

68 Seconds

500

Name three things CARE campus advocate can help a survivor with.

  • Accompaniment to medical exams, law enforcement interviews, Title IX or student conduct meetings
  • Academic and housing accommodations 
  • Crisis counseling and safety planning 
  • Emergency transportation 
  • Restraining orders
500

Name four things that can be on the Power and Control wheel.

Using coercion and threats

Using economic abuse

Using privilege

Using children

Minimizing, denying, and blaming

Using isolation

Using emotional abuse

500

What is the definition of sexual boundaries, and why are they important in relationships?

  • Sexual boundaries refer to the limits individuals set for themselves in relationships. They are important because they ensure that no physical contact occurs in relationships.
  • Sexual boundaries encompass the guidelines individuals establish for their comfort levels and desires in sexual activities. They are important as they promote consensual, respectful, and safe relationships.
  • Sexual boundaries are rules imposed by society on how individuals should behave in relationships. They are important because they prevent individuals from expressing their desires.
  • Sexual boundaries are irrelevant in modern relationships, as partners should do whatever they feel like without discussing limits.
  • Sexual boundaries encompass the guidelines individuals establish for their comfort levels and desires in sexual activities. They are important as they promote consensual, respectful, and safe relationships.
500

A man is watching a woman on the beach through binoculars and decides he must have her. Five years later, the same woman goes on a vacation with her best friend and boyfriend, when they go out, someone orders her favorite champagne to her table and we later find out that it is the man whom she never met. Later, while walking to the bathroom, the man stops her, gets uncomfortably close to her and says, “Are you lost, baby girl?”. He later drugs her, kidnaps her, and proclaims he can make her fall in love with him and if she does not, he will let her go. He says he won’t touch her without her permission, as he is touching her without her permission. He even threatens her family and breaks up with her boyfriend on her behalf. While still kidnapped, she suffers a traumatic accident, and he saves her. This incident leads her to believe she is in love with him.

Doesn't respect personal space, touches her with no permission, threatens her family, breaks her up with her boyfriend, Drug her, kidnaps, stalking

This scenario is 365 days

500

What is the percentage of college students who always obtained clear consent before engaging in sexual activities?

37%