Boundaries
What type of boundary is this?
How long you do something, how long you stay somewhere.
Time boundary
Your favorite thing to do in your free time is arts and crafts, what type of love is this?
Love for hobbies
You bond with a new friend over having the same favorite tv show. This is an example of a common ___.
interest
What does UIL stand for?
UMass Inclusive Learning
If someone wanted to become a famous wrestler, what organization could they join?
WWE, WWF
Give an example of an emotional boundary
Example: Choosing to walk away from a conversation that upsets you.
Emotional Boundary: how emotionally available you are to others, what you share
This could be love for a parent, grandparent, pet, siblings, friend, or the people you choose to be closest to.
Family love
Give an example of how you could meet new people on campus.
Examples: campus events, joining a club, talking to peers in your class.
This UIL staff member speaks Spanish.
Emily
What celebrity was named after James Taylor?
Taylor Swift
What type of boundary is this?
"I’d rather not talk about politics at work—let’s stick to other topics."
Conversational Boundary
The love you have for groups you are a part of, such as UIL, is an example of what type of love?
Community Love
You meet your peer mentor for lunch for the second time. You know that they are really into art and take a history class, what questions can you ask to start a conversation?
Examples: What kind of art do you like? What type of history do you like?
What type of pet does Mark have?
Bonus: what colors?
Cat, black and white
This electric-type Pokémon is the mascot of the Pokémon franchise.
Pikachu
Your friend is upset with you for not spending enough time with them, you explain to them that you need alone time and they should respect that.
What type of boundary is this?
Internal Boundary: how you self-regulate, the energy you spend, and on whom/what
Time Boundary: how long you do something, how long you stay somewhere
The platonic (non-romantic) love you have for someone you are close with.
Friend love
You want to become friends with another UIL student you don't know very well, how could you start a conversation to get to know them better?
Examples: Introduce yourself if you haven't met, ask about their interests, etc.
How many UIL students are there?
9
Finish the lyric to this iconic Sabrina Carpenter song:
"I'm working late 'cause I'm a _____ "
singer
You let your roommate borrow your laptop when needed, but they start to take it without asking first. What type of boundary should you set and how?
Material Boundary
Example:
After a stressful day, you decide to treat yourself to your favorite meal and an activity that helps you unwind (meditation, comfort show, journaling, etc.)
What type of love is this?
Self love
How could you learn about Campus events to meet new people?
What are Elise and Olivia's majors?
Psychology
What type of college was UMass originally?
A. Nursing School
B. Agricultural School
C. Education School
B. Agricultural school